So I met this HB 8-9 two weeks ago clubbing. She is on an exchange program at my school (very hot). Had a great time attracted her kissed her and went into C1. In the weekend I took her to a cafe, hiking and to the hot springs. Monday afternoon we got into foreplay at my place. I live with my parents, she didn't seem to care. But she presented some LMR and said "I think we should wait". I tryed some freeze out's but things didn't happen and she really had to leave, after all it was Monday. I got stuck in the seduction phase. This last week we went out and everything seemed OK (kissing holding hands). This weekend I invited her to my friends's farm, really nice. But out of nothing she didn’t want to kiss me or hold hands or anything. I knew something was wrong. One of her best friends was also invited maybe she felt uncomfortable with that. Yesterday we talked about it she said she felt suffocated. And today she wrote me a message and said let’s just be friends. Maybe I acted too nice or needy in some way I didn't notice. I want to have her, she's really hot. It’s just that she's this perfect, disciplined, preppy girl that gets too much attention and feels everyone is expecting her to be perfect, speccially her friends or family. How can I get her back in my game without making her think I want something serious but a the same time without activating her ASD. I haven’t answered her message yet how should I respond?

You have a couple options here

A: State that you dont want to be friends and are only interested in her sexually

B: Dont respond at all. By not accepting the friend card you can perhaps try again in the future by not contacting her for a while.

Thats how i see it atleast

From personal experience, if you've gotten a girl at your place and nothing happened, you fucked up and there is very little chance of recovery.

It is my opinion that you should just say, "Well, we are friends, right?" Enforce that "friends" thing that she wants to, have her verbally agree, but sneak in a lil bit of making out. If you haven't already made out with her, you've been done.

Also, don't call it clubbing you lil sad knt. That's what 18 year old girls call it.

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Where I'm from, everyone calls it clubbing. Or pimping, alternatively, but that's more expressly hitting on girls.