Hey guys, im driving my mind crazy with this girl. Sorry for the long post, but here's the story,

i met this girl (hb9) in a office i did a freelance job a few months ago (she is 28 and im 24), and took her number and once in a while we texted, but nothing special. So in january i hit her up again after a few months without talking, and try to set up a date, but always said yes and then she had some excuse, so i stopped trying. So a month ago she texted me, and told me that we have something pending, so we set up a date, it was a great night, took her out to a bar, drink wine and then took her dancing (im a great dancer and i knew she wanted to dance), so after a while we K close, and it turned very agressive tits kissing in the bathroom, but no F close. We joke once in a while about her being a granny because she is older and she tells me that im young but she seem fairly ok with that.

After that we went out again 3 more times all the times the same lots of kissing no fclose, she is a really good girl, each time we had a great time, and in person she seem super interested, the problem is between dates, one day she is super cool and interested, and the next 2 days she seems off, and not engage in text.

Lately i'm the one who starts the conv, but i want more, and i know that she loves spending time with me, so i don't understand why the Hot / Ice game, don't know if she's scare that i may hurt her or im just playing with her, or maybe the AGE is giving her 2nd thoughts. Need some serious advice here on how to keep gaming this girl, right now im trying to keep it simple without texting 24 / 7, if she isn't texting i let her be and don't put pressure on her. But i don't know if this is the best way to approach here, or maybe i have to be more present even if she is playing shy on texting.

I will appreciate any advice or opinion!

4 dates? Still no bumping ugly's?

Why? That's your problem Bro, not the age.

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Yup, 4 dates.. all of them great nights, lots of laughs and kissing, talked about everything, really great connection, in person its always like this, the thing is how i sense her texting, to distant, and in person she is so interested that i dont know what she's up to.

Why have you not been able to fuck her yet? Who really gives a shit about her text replies at this point, she is not fully invested yet. She's likely texting six other swinging dicks at the same time. You must F-close and soon.

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I agree with you, i should've fucked her, and i tried last time to isolate her to my place but she freaked out so i played cool, i want to fuck her bad! but she is playing hard to get, i don't know whats the best way to go here, don't know if i should go Cave man and try to isolate her next time i see her right away, or just keep her playing and slow down/ :/ i don't even know if she wants something serious or she is just playing me

*UPDATE.

After my last reply here, i completely fucked her the next day, went cave man with her and took her to my place for a wine, and a little naughty play. After this, she is completely in this, we have slept together after at least 3 times, and had sex lots of time. Gonna keep this one for a good while, hb 8.5, older than me, and we have lots of fun and sex, think i can settle with this one for a good while. Thanks for clearing my eyes, i was playing dumb at first thinking to much in the age factor, when in fact all i had to do is play her as always. Thanks

You don't own it til you bone it!

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She's using you and will dump you very shortly.

Why you say so? she's still investing more than me, and i dont care if i been used for a booty call, because that's what she is to me for now

Don't listen to Digital Spy, she's just some grenade chick trying to sabotage you. I'm amazed she's still allowed on this site and even more amazed at how much time she spends on it.

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