I've always been decent with girls but as far the art of pick up, im a complete newcomer. I understand it takes a lot of learning and experience but I'm going out to a party tonight and i need a quick rundown of the basics. I read there's a bunch of steps like you need to demonstrate value and so on. I would like a list of the steps and maybe a quick example of each? A girl i met 3 days ago is going to be there, she kinda sends mixed signals but that only makes me want her more, its like shes running game on ME! Is there a different approach if i want to date this girl rather than just fuck her once?

Thanks in advance

There is no quick fix or simple list of steps to follow in pickup. It is a complex art and requires the ability to read people, know what they feel in any given moment, and in some sense "read their minds" (no magic though). Knowing where you stand in relation to a girl is critical in order to calibrate your game and to tell which way to go, what technique you need to use and so on.

But to give you some guidelines to follow, it goes something like this:

1. If you are into direct approaches (not recommended though, unless you don't have any other option), it is good to know the signal a girl gives you to tell you that "you may approach her". It is simple... If she gives eye contact and smiles, she wants you to approach her.

2. Indirect approach (recommended) is when you just start talking to anyone in the group, not focusing on your target. No matter which approach you use, you have to talk to the entire group at first, and befriend them. Charm them and make them trust you. Otherwise you will find it hard to stay in set.

3. Crave attention! Seduction requires attention, and that is why the good old lock-in technique from Mystery Method works so nice (look it up). You need to be an attention whore! However, you have to be smooth and know how to get attention without being an asshole. Tell stories, show people interest, ask questions... This is when you DHV and create attraction.

4. When you start to get IOIs from a girl, you are done creating attraction and should focus on Comfort (try to isolate the girl from the group). Figure out whether you are interested in her too. It may turn out that you don't like her, after all. Note that you may receive IOIs from any girl at random. It may not be your target. Also note that it's not possible to attract everyone, so you need to make up your mind where you want to go with your game if your target doesn't show any interest.

5. Every girl that shows interest can be used to your advantage to get another girl. Just give them enough attention and interest to make them think they have a chance on you (use kino, eye contact and smile), to keep them chasing. The more girls are chasing you, the more they will compete for your attention. The more they compete, the more attractive you will become to other girls in the room, and so on.

6. Use kino. Friendly, non-sexual touches. You may not become sexual unless she almost begs for it. If she looks at your lips when you talk, she probably wants to kiss you.

7. The rest is up to you...

Good luck!