I was kind of dating this blonde, she was absolutely amazing. well I caught feelings and she didnt and at the end of the day we were very different people. The problem is it killed my ego (this was about a month ago, so the debris has really settled)

Im in the process of trying to refind myself, and give myself my old charisma. Literally, a HB8 asked me out (maybe?) out of nowhere. Im a high school senior, this girl and i have been friends and I think shes just really busy, so we havent talked. But out of the blue, were texting and shes like, Have you seen divergent?...blah blah blah.... "lets go see it sunday!" so yeah a hot girl basically walked into my life. But i have no idea if this is really a "date". I need some swagger back. Help me out.

-Dymond

all i can tell you my friend is to just read up more stuff on here and watch some pua movies....don't copy what they say but it'll give you some confidence and examples of body language..........BUT a charismatic person can make any encounter into a date....just remember that...."so even if she SAID it wasn't a date, YOU set the vibe that'll make her wish it was a date".........also if you have girls coming to you like that then you must be the shit lmao

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Stop trying to force the charisma back...You won't be charismatic for some time, behaviors don't just change overnight...Accept your current habitual behaviors & observe them week to week not hour to hour.

Do you feel like you were worth the "HB10"?

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Game doesn't exist.