I've noticed a lot of really fucked up threads pop up on these forums recently and they're nothing short of creepy. You've got guys asking all sorts like how to pick up women at day cares, stalking women they seen walk by once a few months ago, stalking chicks online for weeks or months on end. It's fucking crazy! The worst thing is there seems to be a shit load of people who will actually give these people advice on how to proceed with these encounters or simply encouraging them to go ahead and do it.

It needs to stop. It's just creepy, stalkerish and plain psychopathy. Some of these people are actually deluded into thinking it's perfectly fine to stalk people simply because they seen them and thought they looked pretty, creating an unhealthy obsession with chicks they haven't even spoken a single word to.

Seriously, stop. Just stop. Stop it. It's creepy. It's weird. It's wrong.

No matter what you think this kind of pursuit is just wrong. If you can't work up the balls to approach a woman when you see her don't fucking stalk them hoping on a "chance" meeting. Know when to walk away and have a bit of realism in your thoughts when it comes to Pick Up/Seduction.

Also, all those videos where guys meet women on the street, cling on for dear life to them and won't leave them alone until they go back with them? Yeah, they've only posted videos of them actually winning a chick over when the reality is they've probably tried it 100+ times, got the cops called on them but didn't quit. There's a reason why they do it and post success stories/videos. They want to have a name for themselves as having actually pulled something like that off in the community. Don't feed into that way out there crazy shit because .01% of the time they get women to fuck them that way.

Be realistic and ask yourself: "Will this draw the attention of the cops?/Will this somehow end in the cops being involved?" If the answer is yes then don't do it!

thats one thing i hate most about PUA....to many people give bad advice, now alot of people on this site give amazing advice but there are quite a few who give stalkerist advice.....i saw a video of justin wayne where he basically forces alot of stuff, i belive he does get alot of women but i don't think that would work for most men....the thing about PUA is to help build confidence, teach you ways to approach any girl, have an idea of what works and what doesn't work, and to tell you that any guy can get almost any girl...to many people think there's one way to get a girl when in reality its millions of ways, its not hard

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

At the end of the day, every person who goes for it gets rejected. Pickup is not about avoiding rejection. It's about staring rejection in the face and saying "somebody will say yes." It's about being independent of the yes or no, and about being comfortable in the seat of rejection, and in the seat of success.

Few PUAs exploit their blowouts. If you get blown out by 100 girls in a night and take home one girl are you going to remember the 100? Hell no.

We really do need to stop creeping, and stop cherishing undeveloped relationships as a community. It's a virus. It's oneitis. We all need a dose of GFTOW.

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