I've been on the forum for a good amount of time now, and have been practicing PUA usually in schools (day-game). I always considered myself to be a semi-natural since I was introduced to a lot of "games" in relationships from a very early age (push-pull, compliance, etc..).

I started gaming a girl in Sept.2013 that was coming out of an LTR. She told me that she didn't want anything serious and that was fine by me. We started officially "seeing eachother" (not serious) early January, and have been since. It's come up a couple of times where she said she would rather we were exclusive but she can't force anything since she doesn't want to be my gf yet. I actually like this girl, and just last week she told me she had no direction in her life, and she's had a bf throughout her formative years so she needs a break from bfs. I accepted and didn't beg for her back or anything, because I knew that would amount to nothing. I'm still certain she's still seriously attracted to me but it's like her life won't allow us to continue what we had.

My question is, how do I game her back? Do I approach it like the very beginning? Give her time? We had steady and good sex while seeing eachother, and I figured the key to heart would be to please her constantly in bed. This didn't turn out to be the case. Anyways, I look forward to hearing what you have to reply.

She needs a break from boyfriends? If she valued you as the prize, she would never say shit like that. She'd know that riding your cock and putting a title on it is a privilege.

It sounds like you're pressuring her for a title, when it should be the other way around. Being a lot less needy will go a long way.

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Hey,
I've been in the same position as you do MAN, it sucks
You really like this girls but she seems to not want to get in a relationship with you, because of she wants a break from relationships ( GIRLS LOGIC)
Anyway, I've done my reaserchs, and I found an intresting book of john Alexander" HOW TO GET A GIRL BACK IN 30 DAYS", in order to get her back.
the book give you what to do, to improve your life, to trigger jealousy to get her back.
It worked MAN, I did trigger her attentions, she wanted to be with me, she knew if there is not her, there are others in my life,
I became intresting so she took interest in me, and finally I realize, Im the SHIT, and there are out there girls more fun than she is. I recommand you to read the book
Cordially
DMLOVE

Hey Jones, I totally agree with you on that one, except for the needy part. I've learned that a relationship with no title, but identical to a relationship has no difference, and so I never pressured, I came off as not really caring about it, but would want it nonetheless.

Thanks DMLOVE for the reply, but I already more or less know the steps of what I should do.
It's just this situation that's so odd because I still feel the attraction there, she just doesn't want to act on it and suppresses her feelings to act.

I'm going to see her tomorrow, to discuss some stuff since not everything was settled. I'm probably just going to stay confident and happy. I guess to show that I don't seek her validation? Thing is, whenever I chase a girl I ALWAYS have a plan in my mind, and that makes me feel good. But right now, I'm very hazy about all of this, which in fact makes me a little anxious..