Say you're at a social event with your friends (e.g a birthday party) and there is one ridiculously hot girl there. Because its warm approach (you have mutual friends), a lot of guys will approach her...most of them trying to 'get lucky'. How do you experienced guys go about gaming her?

My friends all do that, and I'm never sure how to deal with it. If I try join in the conversation (even if my motives are innocent) I know my friends will get competitive and try humiliate me which then leads to me putting them down, and looking like a bit of an arsehole. I've tended to just focus on having a good team, keeping my vibe/outer game and body language rock solid, and seeing if anything happens naturally.

What do you guys do?

Game the whole event. Introduce yourself to everyone from guys, girls, ugly girls, moms, dads, AMOGS, lamps, chair ... everything. People will talk about you and you will get the attention of everyone ... including the hot girl.
- Also, you've warmed up significantly chatting and vibing with everyone ... so when you do talk to the hot girl you will be all warmed up to game your full potential.
- Plus she has seen you talk to everyone and everyone has talked about you already ... making her see that you are the right guy for her. Don't be the one who wants to approach here ... make her be the one who wants to approach you or wants you to approach her.
- If your friends try to bust your balls ... ignore them completely. If you react to their negative banters ... you will lose the attention of the girl. Just ecplise your friend, maintain hardcore, intense eye contact with the girl then, isolate the girl.
- For example ... I'm flirter with my target. Friend comes to cock block. I ignore the cock block ... I don't even say anything to him ... pick the girl up and carry her to isolation from your friend.

Game the whole room, make everyone your ally so she can see that you are the right guy for her. Ignore anything that will not help you pick up or have a great time!

Sincerely,

Donston

Solid advice from Donston. I recall having a very specific situation like this before, went out with about 6/7 guys and my cousin turns up with his 'friend' who was some hot girl (I found out later he fancied her, sorry cous) of course all the girls were like excited puppies"A HOT GIRL..............IN OUR GROUP!!!!" they took it in turns laying their best charm attempts on her, whilst I all but completely ignored her existence just chatting with my friends, but being 'in control' of the group....after about an hour of rejecting them one by one, she basically dragged me to a seat, asked my name, within 2 minutes put her hand on my thigh and that was it from there, my cousin was pissed off but meh, his own fault!

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Good advice from Donston! Trying to compete with another guy just makes you both look silly, and the girl will loose interest in both of you. Gaming the whole event will give you social proof and so called "preselection". If you charm people and become popular, the girl will notice you. Eventually you will find an opportunity to talk to her and isolate her from your competitors. Note that this in an indirect approach as opposed to your friends' direct approaches. Always prefer indirect if you can.

Here is a good video about how to handle competition/alpha males:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI