I work at a daycare. The mom of one of the kids; Hb9, comes in to pick her son up. The attraction is there. I get 2 minutes each day Monday through Friday to build rapport. After several days of just greeting her today I introduced myself formally.After saying my name and getting hers I told her after all of our pleasantries I thought it was time we formally met. She agreed. Where do I go from here. How do I build rapport with just so little amount of time each day yo make an impression.

That is really fucking creepy man.

No, seriously. That is really creepy. You mind her kid... at a day care. Back away from that, seriously. Too much could go wrong or get totally fucked up and land you in jail. Don't be forward in this situation. If she's interested let her come to you.

That's all i'll say on this A-Bomb.

^ what he said

I wouldn't say it's creepy at all. He is attracted to and wants to bang an extremely attractive woman. I don't see anything wrong with that at all.

What's wrong with this situation is several things. You're an employee of a daycare. Getting involved with a client romantically is more than likely frowned upon and could cost your job and reputation. The woman may be married, attached or otherwise uninterested. She may raise hell for you if you try to make an advance on her if she falls into this category since your behavior could be construed as unprofessional. She might respond positively to your advances, but if she is crazy and she decides she doesn't like you on a whim, she could make legal trouble for you and you will look very bad given the circumstances. You are taking care of her child, which would seem to suggest she has some kind of attachment to a man. There's nothing illegal about it if she's separated or divorced, but say she is married or has a crazy ex-husband who is mad that a guy who is supposed to by taking care of his kid is banging his ex-wife he never really got over. He might be a very, very angry and violent man.


You're not creepy. It's just that practically speaking, in this situation, it's more than likely in everyone's best interest to suppress your feelings. Find out what you can about her indirectly if you must. A little friendly flirting never hurt anyone if you simply wanna gauge interest and have found out she's single. I would recommend not going forward, but if you do, tread carefully.

What does this mean exactly? did she agree to a date?

btw, i'm not on the bandwagon of saying this is creepy. just calibrate carefully and everything will be fine.

This should be fun, figure out her interests... Find something that relates to what she does and you do. Invite her to do it. Fuck her?

How is it creepy? He's after the mum, not the kid...

To these guys everything is creepy. They tell me I am not supposed to tell anecdtes about my job because I am a teacher.

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Does she have a husband or boyfriend? If not why not mention hanging out and gauge her reaction.

I think you are right, find a common interest and go from there. I am pretty sure she is single. Even though I work at the daycare I don't work with her kid. Not sure if she would care though. I'm thinking should I try to build a few more weeks of attraction or ask her out now?

i would a advise against waiting. time is almost never on the side of someone trying to pickup a woman. the sooner you act the better your results, usually.

Today we talked about something we have in common, at the peak of her laughter I asked for her number, she responded by saying she didn't have her phone on her ( not sure if she thought I said "can we exchange numbers") anyway as I repeat myself she gives me her number. Later that evening I text "Hey Christine this is my number (my name)". She didn't respond but not worried at all. Where do i go from here phone wise and in person wise as I will see her when she pick up her kid from the daycare

that's the tricky part that the critics may have been hinting about. this is potentially a flake. since it's your job, you really have to let it be now. you've stated your intent and made the move which is fine. now it's totally up to her. let her make the next move. just be courteous and professional. do not push the issue. i personally wouldn't even mention it because it may make her feel awkward.

I would advise waiting it out, she got the message loud and clear.

On your initial contact I would have added; "Hey Christine this is my number (my name) don't abuse it!".

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She made the move/Today when I saw her she was already walking out of the door with her kid, she smiled at me and said I got your message, I smiled back and said cool