Wasn't sure what section to put this in. I'm not very smart.

Anyhow, here's the deal. I've been dating this one girl for over a month now and things are getting more serious. She is definitely anxious to get into a relationship while I feel I'm not ready for it. She obviously feels in love with me while I'm not so sure about how I feel about her, although I like her very much and wants to keep seeing her and having sex (she's a goddess in bed).

I think I ultimately will want to get out of it. But I don't know how to smooth it out without breaking her heart or anything, it's all just frustrating to me to be in this situation. I haven't read any PUA stuff about it and I feel like a fish out of it's bowl.

So short question: She's in love with me, how do I handle it as a guy who doesn't want to be in a relationship?

Thanks guys..

Don't bring it up? If she asks for a LTR just spew some bullshit about coming out of a relationship and not being ready just yet. Or just tell her the truth "I'm not interested in a relationship right now." She'll be pissed and ditch or most likely try to win you over.

When a girl says, "I love you" that's girlie speake for, "I want your cock so bad honey." That means, keep on fucking her good.

Now, when a girl says anything like, "How do I live without you?" and you're not ready for an LTR, just tell her the truth and cut clean. It will break her heart more if you lied to her.

"I love you" is like a girl saying she's fine when she actually means the opposite.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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Just be honest. Anything else will cause unnecessary drama.
You had your fun move on to the next girl.
She will get hurt that you don't want the same thing but she won't get as hurt as if you play with her feelings long term.

Thanks for the replies. I think the problem is that I'm afraid to commit. I'm going to let my feelings grow for a bit and then we'll see.