Hey guys,

Was wondering if i could get your advice on a few things...

So let me give you a bit of a backstory....

Went to a strip club with a friend MONTHS ago... met this sexy latin stripper... played it cool.. she sat.. we talked for like 20 minutes... then as i was leaving i asked for her number and wanted to see her outside of the club... she said i dont give my number out to people i just meet... so i said OK no problem... didnt think i was going to see her again

Until.. in a drunken stupor.. i wander into the strip club by myself (which i NEVER do)... sit down... and then she approaches me and remembers me, my name, my profession... everything... which i thought was odd especially since it was months since i last saw her

She sits down and we talk for a good half hour and once i sobered up (or at least felt good enough to drive) i proceeded to leave but she pulled me down and gave me her number

So I waited a bit... texted her and we texted back and forth for a couple weeks... Her texts were long and extensive... definitely interested... so we meet up for dinner

Our first date was "ehhh"... OK by my standards.... good conversation... minimal "awkward" silence... but really no sexual escalation... I think I may have intentionally not escalated since she probably expected that.. so i wanted to throw her a curve ball

So after the first date... we continue to txt back and forth... always exchanging stories and interesting videos that we see and might spark interest.. but my question to you guys.. is what should be my gameplan on sexually escalating with this girl... Definately, dont want to JUST fall into the platonic friend mode (also not trying to WIFE this girl up...)

Normally, I will take her to a bar, get closer and intimate... establish some kino and move from there... easy stuff.... problem is.. this girl doesnt drink and looks down on people who drink (i think her dad may have been an alcoholic.....)

Not only that.. but there is a minor language barrier so casual "negs" may not work as she might not get them...

Interested to see what you guys can give me in terms of advice

Always escalate.

It isn't throwing her a curveball, it's going to come off as boring.

She wants to be fucked like any other girl, now treat her like any other girl.

Here:

http://www.theskillsmethod.com/guess-po ... -sorcerer/

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Never had a stripper but I would guess if you're bringing her to bars and talking crap you should just go in for the kiss during the date. Just tell her to kiss you.

I've learned some really fucking great things that i've picked up in the past few months from personal experience. One of the main ones was forcing eye contact which is great for night game but the other is just straight up going to a girl (Who you're already talking to of course) and telling them to "come here/closer" then telling them to kiss you. They almost always give a cheeky smile and say "i'm shy." It's golden for the k-close which really loosens things up between you.

Hey dude listen tp what Skills said. Here's a story from personal experience. Not very often, but sometimes you'll meet a genuinely nice girl working as a stripper. I empasize though not very often. Anyway I met this british girl one time she was easily one of the sweetest girls I have ever met! I almost fell off my chair when I found out she was working as a stripper to pay for school. I think that could possibly be your situation here, but I don't know escalate don't treat her any different because she's a stripper or she will notice, and likely feel uncomfortable. Just play it cool and do what you would with any other girl.
Hope that helps good luck!!

Actually mystery was really good with strippers he dated them a lot... lol! There is another dude here who is a moderator called vitamin j, he also dated a lot of strippers, he has a post on it too..

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