Hi guys, I'm from Brazil, 21 years old, and I've been reading and applying PUA since 2009.
I end a 10 months relationship about 2 weeks ago, and i'm fine with that, I came back sarging and KC 4 girls since that.
But there is a girl in my university, she studies physics (so do I) and she looks amazing. We work together on the same group of laboratory. So i started to game with her and she gave me every IDI. We saw each other often and chat on SPAM until late. For me it was obvious that she was really interested on me.
So I invited her to a huge party of our university and we meet there. She was exciting at first but when we went to the dance floor I notice that she was starting to look upset. Then i tried to kino escalate her and insisted to dance with her. She said to me that she was getting upset because she doesnt dance. Then I stopped insisting and left she with her friends. After that she stopped to reply me messages for like 5 days, until today, when she told me that she had a problem with people touching her. She told me that she doesnt like to hugh even her parents. I apologize and said that was not my intention at all to annoy her.
I think she had some sort of trauma in her childhood, and i dont have any clue how to deal with it. I really want to make her feel confortable around me and i need advice. Dont know what to do next.

It's not on you, bud, she's got some sort of issue. Just move on from her, she's damaged goods. You did nothing wrong.

Thanks, i kind tought that way, but i feel like i can help her and i really want to. She is an amazing woman, not just beautifull but smart and delicate. Just dont want to give her up that way.

Go fuck ten other women. You need to cure your oneitis. She is not everything. She is not the best you can get. If you think someone like her with her serious mental/emotional problems is THE ONE for you, you are undervaluing yourself. Just know that if you ever get with her you're gonna be dealing with a TON of headaches. You may not even get laid at all. And, what's more, she may even be psychotic and try to harm you. It's Pandora's Box.

Usually it's best to stay away from chicks like this, no matter how enticing they may seem. She is going to give you more problems than she will be worth. She's not even comfortable with people touching her, so how easy do you think it is going to be to fuck her?

Once you realize that there ARE better prospects out there, (even smarter, even more delicate, even hotter) you'll get over her in a jiffy.

It's your life, so do what you feel is right. But if were you, I'd stay away.

That is the problem most of us men have, we want to help. We want to fix things, but this is something you cannot fix. It is up to her to fix it herself and it may not happen one year from now, ten years from now, twenty, or thirty. Não é bom

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