So I k-closed this HB8 on a party last friday and as I was K-closing we got into it and I could of F-closed but i had logistics problem and had to take the last buss leaving leaving in mid closing. I quickly # closed before I took off, while she was on a high temp but it might of came of as a little bit forced.

This monday i texted her and tried to open with

Me: Knock knock

but i have not gotten any response, my guess is that she is either flaking or it might be that she is afraid to reply due to she does not know its me (i forgot to call her right after # close to assure her of my number).

Should I re-initiate in a day or two if she still has not yet respond or should I just leave it and move instead?

she probably has buyers remourse or you didn't leave a good enough impression, i think the text book answer here is to move on. But in these situations i usually try something for shits and giggles (if they actually work). I tried "why are you being such a roach i only wanted to buy you a footlong" (subway commercial on my mind) and "what are you thinking about besides my cool hair" but now that i think of it they sound awful from a strangers view, so yeah best be moving on son

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Probably a combination of buyers remorse and you not building enough comfort/commonality either before or after k-closing. I had the same problem last Friday, got making out with this chick after about 5 minutes, madeout for like 2 hours straight and rubbing her etc, she was begging me to fuck her, we didn't have the logistics (I offered logistics but she couldn't, won't go into it). Next day, barely wants to know, because all we did was makeout and be sexual, which is great in the short term, if you're after a SNL it's perfect, but if you want a day 2, sometimes even fucking her with no kind of comfort bond built isn't enough.

I advise you do as I am doing with my Friday chick. Freeze out for a few days, attempt to re-open with a view to very quickly arrange some kind of meet up, if that fails then move on. No point in wasting your time.

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Go find ten other women.
Anytime the question has to do with fixing something, just GFTOW. In the end, if they're that interested, they'll hit you up.

Fix your situation NEXT TIME. You had to take the last bus? WRONG! You have to take the first bus tomorrow. You have to fuck her SOMEWHERE and SOONER.

Making out is foreplay. Foreplay is to turn you on. You get turned on so your dick is hard enough to fuck with, so you can fuck. Therefore...FUCK, or don't give yourself the dick tease.

Don't hit them up with bullshit on Monday. Stop trying to bait them. Stop texting needy desperate bullshit to get them to become attracted to you. SHE WAS JUST ATTRACTED TO YOU. YOU ARE TRYING TO GET TO A PLACE YOU'RE ALREADY AT. You should be hitting them up so you can arrange a day2.

If you met a girl at a party, you can meet OTHER GIRLS at OTHER PARTIES. Put more energy into finding OTHER PARTIES. SARGE SAID PARTIES.

If your text game is weak start getting numbers of fat girls. Start dirty talking these fat girls like they have no value. Start asking for nudes and blowjobs and learn what you can get away with and how to do it with them. Use the same game on hot sluts you meet/fuck at parties.

If you're getting their number and your only connection was physical, you have permission to talk to her sexually without any segway. Do that. They will take it as you are horny and want to fuck. If you try to lead and bait them they will think of you just as you are, emotionally desperate.

Emotionally desperate? Start hanging out with girls you're not attracted to for your emotional needs. These are your chick friends; your fake girlfriends. They fill the emotional role if you need it.

Move on. That whore you met at the party is meaningless until proven otherwise. That sweet girl you connected with at the coffee shop is meaningless until proven otherwise. It's not important. If you enjoy your time with your ten other women enough, you won't be willing to give up 9 so you can keep 1.

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Update: She actually replied it was just that she took so long time I was thinking that she was not going to, would of been confused if she flaked on just a opener. To be said to all your comments, my game was really rock solid, i built a lot of comfort, everything was good, it was just the end that was a bit off, so there was no buyers remorse etc involved. If she flakes now at the meet-up, she flakes, there is nothing I can do about that, thats how it is. Thanks for your help thou.

Awesome! Don't be a slave to that device! Keep it in check.

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