Will someone with some experience explain to me what is happening in this situation??

One of my moms friends called me a few days ago and told me she knew a really sweet pretty girl at work that she wanted me to take on a blind date. I met up with her at "the duck Pond" and we walked my to new puppies around it. Conversation flowed really well. We teased each other and cut up telling jokes. after walking we decided we would go to chick-fil-a. After we left i went back to her house and well... i don't know what the fuck happened after that... Ive never encountered anything like it. Im sitting there chatting with her family. All of her brothers are absolutely enormous like 375 pounds, I start talking to her oldest brother about the guns the guns they have in there cabinet. He tells me how he enjoys hunting. His dad is sitting inn the couch with us. within 15 minutes of being there her oldest brother is telling his father and me about fisting girls and his new girlfriend's d cup tits. I go over to her other brother who is in the kitchen making squirrel stew and making the hyde into small leather pouches while smoking and electric cigarette, just really bizarre!

Anyway so the girl is pretty cute and kinda quirky but a little demanding. She's putting a quilt over the two of us and snuggling up to me. Her brother is going on with all kinds of bizarre stories. Its pretty obvious that she's feeling me. She grabs me by the hand takes me into the kitchen to show me the big new pantry they built. We go in there she wraps her arms around me. We get really close and i go in for the kiss and she turns her head away. I think ok no big deal she's just not ready. When i leave i try again and she kisses back and said are you happy now. Im thinking yes i got the kiss close and i leave. She sends me a text telling we what a wonderful time she had. That I'm the perfect mix of nice and mean (push and Pull tactics"You have nice eyes except for the left on" things like that. This morning she text me good morning i text back and fourth for a few minutes and i ask her if she wants to go ride mountain bikes around 11:00 a.m. which she and i both really enjoy. She says heck ya!! so i go get my bike serviced and I manage to talk the people at the bike shop into letting me use one of there demos for her to ride...so she won't have to ride my other bike...but rather a smaller one that will fit her. I said what time will you be free? She tells me that she's eating lunch with her family at "jason's deli" Now this is all going on around 3:00. I say ok well do you wanna meet up at 4:00 and she said well were going to to ultra beauty supply but ill text you when we leave. " I said Cool sounds good! Well i had dinner plans at 7pm so around 5pm i texted her and said were gunna have to ride another day because i have dinner plans at seven. She said Im so sorry sterling!! we are just leaving the mall (where ultra is) I ignore her text and she sends another one " Im really really sorry i feel terrible i got stuck with my family and i really didn't have an out. I said no worries and i went to my planned dinner. Afterwords, around 9pm i texted her and said "Do you wanna come over and see the puppies and watch movie?" she said "You can come over to my house and pick me up!" I said "well played, ok see you in a few" so I change clothes real quick and start heading that way and i get a text that says "hey I'm going to Ihop with a friend. If you feel like pancakes feel free to join us. At this point I'm about a block from her house and now I'm royally pissed off because i drove across town and half a mile away she cancels our plans. I say No. y'all have fun. She writes back "Sorry ...she got bailed on and was feeling bad and your busy anyways" I don't answer her for like and hour and i get another text "do you think you could cook us pancakes." I didn't and don't want to respond...I'm pissed off at this bitch but i can't help but wonder what the fuck is wrong with this girl!! The only thing i an think of is either she's a tease or she's male gender role because she would say things like...arent you going to open the car door for me...or lets not eat there lets go to chic-fil-a. I didnt bring my wallet your buying...things like that. Has anyone encountered something similar? Im over the whole thing but I'm also wanting categorize this scenario. Making plans and flaking and acting interested but when you act on it she shuts you down. When i tried to kiss her the first time she pulled away and said what have you done for me? I just want to make sense of what happened...im not going to call her anymore i don't think but still it arouses my curiosity. Thanks

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Well done this far. I think she has an odd habit of friendzoning guys. Remain alpha, let her know you are alpha and that you are the fun guy not she!

Hard to read. That's a fucking wall of text right there.

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I live in midland tx...this doesn't mean we eat squirrels!! lol If you guys will elaborate a little I would real appreciate it! Thanks

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She is making you invest more ... meaning she is making you comply to her ... You know like a good little dog ^_^.
- But, she could be doing this unconsciously! Most hot girls do this to potential boy friends ... to see how obedient the guy is.
- All her behaviours are actually standard PUA tactics to get a girl to invest and chase you ... and she is applying it to you ... tahahhaha.
* You must reverse the roles and make her invest, comply, and chase you!
- By developing the abundance mindset! Being willing to lose the girl by screening the girl and putting your foot down when she crosses the line.
- Go read some tactics on how to make a girl chase/invest/game you.
- Game other girls to further enhance this mindset.

Sincerely,

Donston

Well said Donston.

Basically she is just running game on you to see if you are a challenge. It was great that you remained firm that you had a dinner event on 7pm, and was willing to cancel the date with her for the dinner.

However, you requested for another date way too early. In fact you should continue demonstrating that you are living an awesome life without her by saying how awesome dinner was.

You were too available for her, that is why she is willing to flake on you and cancel plans on the last minute.

For now, just continue demonstrating an awesome life without her by subtly telegraphing through text or phone calls without inviting her.

This girl is pretty much in, just that she needs to test you if you need her more than she needs you.

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