Or to the relationship. I am not sure what brought this about. I have been improving on all aspects of my life. She also asked me if I am talking to other girls or trying to find new ones. I have not. I am not sure what to do here. She sent me that through text...came home and didn't speak to me. I told her I am committed and if she thinks otherwise then so be it.


She is the first girl I ever loved and I told her that a few weeks ago, which bothers me as to why she would ask this question.


I grew a lot with her these past 6 months. I have never had my head clearer. She helped overcome some thing such as intimacy, gave me passion for success, it just sucks that she is acting weird now. Funny thing is, I do love her, but I have gained so much confidence that I know I will be fine whatever the outcomes I am not writing us out yet...


Any thoughts guys? You guys helped me when I was a single man

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Talk to her about it, you're in a relationship where honesty is paramount. It will give you a better insight into why she has said those things.

I found out. She admitted she looked through messages through my phone. Some of those messages were a little racy, for example describing my sex life with gf to my best girl friend. Other messages included flirting and who knows what she looked through. None of them got to meetups, basically just talking.

Now, I don't know where to go from here. I like her, I have avoided one on one's with these girls so my actions speak for themselves. However, she looked through my phone, that's already a sign of distrust, which is pretty big in a relationship. I haven't texted her back but I can't let her off the hook for snooping.

I trust her. Even when she mentioned her ex messaging her (which I believe is the other way around, she messaged him), I didn't make it into a big deal. I am not proud of my messages, but some of those messages are weeks old, before I started really falling for her. Then the messages started turning a platonic. I didn't mention I had a girlfriend but I did cut the flirting.

Now she is asking me if I want her or to be single. Problem is I want her, how do we recover from this...I don't know if she will believe me if I told her I wanted her but saw past messages that indicated otherwise.

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Ask to see her messages then. Say fair is fair,you seen mine show me yours.
See what kind of reaction that gets because bitches love the double standard.big time.
Also you'll get to see what sort of talking is going on. That sucks bro.