I'm quickly learning that gaming 5 nights a week like I'd prefer is not possible unless I start solo gaming.

Any advice or thoughts on this?

What should my internal dialogue be because right now if I did it I would be thinking 'I'm here alone with no friends, this is pathetic'.

But a lot of the time when I'm out I end up opening sets on my own anyway when the lads refuse to approach women.

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I always go solo. It makes me feel like a commando. It's tough. One adaption is I like to show up early and sarge 30-45 min before a date. I always decide where the date is so it's a good, target-rich environment with a lot of places to which i can bounce with her.
In a week or two you will have your hands full and will just be doing the aforementioned strategy. I really like it.

Lame fucks don't go out by themselves. Lame fucks go out with other lame fucks or they sit at home. It takes balls to go out and hunt by yourself. And the reason you can do it is because your a bad ass that KNOWS you won't be alone long.

That's what you should be thinking to pump yourself up. At least that's what I say.

You can start the night out by yourself... But you can be out with people in a very short amount of time. All you've gotta do is start saying "Hi" to people and see what happens.

Yea, and it's true. I can't tell you how many times I've went out by myself, ran into a group of guys and hit it off with them enough to where I could tell a girl "those are my friends over there, guys night out it's my buddies birthday" or something along those lines.

Have you not got a few mates that you could go out with? Once you're out you can approach your sets etc with the comfort that you're out with friends, but you're also sarging solo.

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I'm out maybe 2 -3 nights a week with my mates, but it's a different group every night. Guys from class one night, football another, etc. Then eventually they run out of money or decide to not go out and I text somebody else.

I'm talking about what happens on night 4 or 5 when everybody's done for the week I'm still raring to go. There's a fuck up on night 1 I wanna fix on night 2, a bad mistake on night 2 I can alter on night 3, etc.

I'm impatient and don't like waiting extended periods to try again.

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If you turn up at a bar/pub/club or wherever, the group you open will only know if your alone if you tell them your alone. If you have the confidence to go out by yourself and sarge solo, as long as your opening and accepted by the group, technically your not out alone. If your group/target ask you who you are out with then just say something like "Just a few mates from the football team, they're catching up with an old friend outside somewhere'' (possible DHV by mentioning you play football and you can use to stack forward on)

Just an idea.

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When I used to go out alone and get talking to people, whenever I'd get asked "Who are you out with tonight then?" I'd just be blunt and say "No-one, I just felt like coming out" sometimes they'd press further, commonly something along the lines of "How can you go out on your own?? I'd never do that" to which I'd respond "If I want to come out, I come out, it doesn't matter whether other people want to or not. Their decision shouldn't affect my ability to come out and have a good time when I feel like doing that."

This would pretty much always follow with whoever I was talking to saying they had big respect for me, or that I've got big balls or whatever. Sometimes they'd just straight up say to hang with them for the rest of the night.

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I think you just have to get comfortable with it. It may take some time. I'm trying to get the hang of it, so I'm taking baby steps. The first night I went out alone, I'm certain I had a frightened/lost look on my face. Last night I went out alone (place was wack, nothing but old folks) and used some openers on a few chicks, made some small talk but didn't close. I'm working on it though.

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