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PostPosted: Fri Mar 21, 2014 11:02 am 
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Here's this girl i like from my class. It's been 6 months since i got to know her well. We text a lot. However, she has now been calling me a friend now & then. She's always quick with the replies & always recieves the calls. She also says she keeps waiting for my texts. In class she comes over to me to say hi & starts the conversation. I brushed her off for like quite a few days & it pissed her off. She's a bit shy type but sometimes flirts, & calls me a friend when i try to take a step. Last day she was talking about her friend who was sad because his crush friendzoned him. Should i get over her & start out with another girl or is there a way to turn the situation around.


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 22, 2014 10:44 am 
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Here's this girl i like from my class. It's been 6 months since i got to know her well. We text a lot. However, she has now been calling me a friend now & then. She's always quick with the replies & always recieves the calls. She also says she keeps waiting for my texts. In class she comes over to me to say hi & starts the conversation. I brushed her off for like quite a few days & it pissed her off. She's a bit shy type but sometimes flirts, & calls me a friend when i try to take a step. Last day she was talking about her friend who was sad because his crush friendzoned him. Should i get over her & start out with another girl or is there a way to turn the situation around.
You are already friendzoned. I think it is better to move on.

Of course you can always try, but then your game must be very tight and she must still have some interest. Chances are small. Ask her to introduce her female friends to you, and see her reaction. Then you will know.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2014 10:38 pm 
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I agree that it's better to just move on. She just seems to enjoy the attention. It took me 2 years to get out of friend zone with my ex girlfriend, which I was really emotionally supportive, and she rebounded within 24 hours. Go find someone better, who won't cause you to wonder so much


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2014 7:39 pm 
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Thanks, i guess so. Now i have started not to show her much attention, she took goes one step further & flirts with another guy in front of me.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2014 10:52 pm 
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It's a provocation shit-test because your starting to walk away and stand up for yourself. Friend-zone is all about being her emotional support, she feels she can control you with your emotions. Keep this in mind, the more you support her, the lower her standards are for other guys. Your a backup plan, an failsafe option. Don't be!

She's gonna try everything to emotionally beat you to keep you in check. Lookout for her to actively seek out your attention. She'll even resort to negative-attention seeking, anything to keep HER on YOUR mind. Remember she thinks she owns your emotions, use it to your advantage here. No one can offer what you bring to the table, your unique. No other man has what you do.

Remember she wants an emotional response from you (positive OR negative, both indicate you CARE which is what she HAS TO HAVE, in friend-zone she's dependent on you always being there). So, deliberate attempts of jealousy are her way to test how strong her hold on your emotions is.

Next time she trys that, smirk like a badass :mrgreen:


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 03, 2014 6:12 am 
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She is definitely seeking for some response. She turns it up a notch & is doin stuff with other guys that she did not wid me like givin a peck on the check. I havent reacted not buying into her game, & talk to her less often. But now she texts me asking what's wrong with me as if she didn't do anything at all being all nice & bubbly. I wanted to move on, but she's seems to be throwing shits at constantly. Unsure of what to do from here.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 03, 2014 9:47 pm 
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She'll do anything positive/negative/nice/evil, you name it. The answer is TOTAL INDIFFERENCE, trust me. Stop caring at all. How long to do take to text her back? Wait atleast a day, maybe more. She's still contacting you BECAUSE she knows you still care. She doesn't want to give that up. The question is, do you want to keep being provoked? Do you want to be a tool in her life? Because if she's not pursuing you, like when you were together, then she's just hedging her bets with you. BACKUP planning. Keep in mind, she might not even consciously know she's putting you thru this, that or she doesn't care.

They can't miss you until your gone. It will take her time to realize the loss, so just give up contact now. All of it. Time IS your ally here. She'll break, she's supposed to. YOUR the STRONG one here.


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