Basically been messaging this chick from Tinder for a couple weeks, tried to get her to meet up twice but to no avail, essentially started to think this lead had gone cold. All of a sudden this happens:
Her: You out tonight?xx
Me: Not tonight unfortunately, you having fun at *bar*? xx
Her: I'm off to *other bar*. Come out!!xx
Her: Musteriiiiion
(did the iiiiii with my real name)
Me: Don't you full name me lol. Believe me I'd love to, but I can't tonight, what time are you heading out Saturday?xx
Trying to set alternative as she mentioned earlier she'd be out then
Her: Pleeease!! I dunno xx
Now let me explain why I declined going out and some logistics; I literally have no money, like none, until tomorrow (typical) when I get paid, I can't actually believe how bad the timing was on this one, it's a mind fuck because this is the first day in the last 3 months I've had no money. She's 18 and I know she's still living "at home" which sucks because I'm living at home at the moment too (moving out over the summer close to town, can't freaking wait!) which means any chance of an f-close is pretty damn slim, also she's out for a friends birthday so I know that I'm not only gonna have her to run game on, but I'm gonna have a plethora of cock-blocks too to deal with and no wing to back me up.
So anyway, I leave it a few minutes, then as I'm texting her back, she freaking calls me, I'm very much caught off my guard. I answer of course and she literally starts nagging me to come out, I say playfully "hey don't nag me missy!" and she replies with "I'll stop nagging if you come out." After she pushes for a reason for a while I tell her that I literally have no money, like not even enough for a cab home, she asks how far away I live, it's about an hour and a half walk away (I'm not going to town for like 1 drink and walk that distance home for some girl I've never met...heck I wouldn't have done it for my ex!). Eventually her friend chimes in saying I'm boring and she agrees (can't tell if it's just playful or not). I ask her what time she's out Saturday (she's had more time to think by now) and she says 10pm, I say "make that 8pm and we'll go for pre-drinks" she says she's working until 8pm which is why she's going out so that (damnit) then she gets to the bar and says she can't hear me, we say bye and call ends.
I text her about 45mins later saying "Enjoy your night, I'll drink your German ass under the table on Saturday
" which is reference to an earlier conversation where she was essentially challenging me because she's part german, (no response yet as it was only about 5 mins ago I sent that).
So gentlemen of game, my questions are thus:
1) is this still on? The pua in me is saying "abundance mentally, if you don't come running the first time she gives you the opportunity then you showing she's not on a pedestal" or whatever. The chode in me is saying "this was the one chance and it's now gone, you won't get a second".
2) How could I have played this better? what would you have done differently.
3) My next move, I was thinking of freezing out from now (obviously after the last text which I just sent) until Saturday night unless she puts some serious effort into re-opening me or asks about logistics for Saturday etc. Then call her on Saturday just before the time she said she'd be heading out for. What's you guys opinions?
Been out of game for a couple years so am rusty as fuck on this shit lol. In the meantime I'm going out really late tomorrow night and my mate's housemates are all away for the weekend so I have logistics for an SNL if I can pull it off haha.
CHAT
