Dear pua's,

I am 18 years old and I like a girl that I know from primary school. In secondary school we changed a lot and I want to date her now. I think she likes me also more than in the past, but I am not sure. She could also be so nice, because we know each other for so long. I read the game of Neil Strauss, but that advice is more for girls you met at a party. You met them just for the first time.

So how could I make the step from just a girlfriend to THE girlfriend?
Do you guys have any idea?


Ps: I see her a lot but only during school.
My game knowledge is the game of Neil Strauss.
If you see a English mistake, I am sorry therefor. I come from the Netherlands and I suck in English.

It's okay. I suck in English too. I have Chinese-Spanish-Indo-Malayan ancestry.
18 is a time of surging hormones among girls. That's the time when girls are super horny.

I say learn to read body language first. Go to Poetic's epic thread on body language. Once you know the concepts, observe infield a lot and then take the Newbie Challenge and get some practice.

When you have enough practice, learn to sexually escalate and make girls horny and then practice those some more.

After that, apply what you've learned and practiced on your target girlfriend.

In summary: Make her horny and fuck her real good and you'll be okay.

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I agree, that's why I feel sorry for the man that met the PUA community in a later stage. I am in a lucky position.
I understand everything that you were saying. Get more practice, study a lot and it would be okay.

Maybe I wasn't clear in my post.
So make her horny, check.

But how am I going to invite her to a date? I think it is very weard to ask: Hé girl would you like to grap a coffee after school? Normally you would do that. But it is a bit awkward, because I didn't do that for all the time I know her.


Maybe fun to know: when we were youngher she was in love with me, but I didn't. But I was polite and I stayed for a night at her place. Then suddently when we were going to bed, she stood their naked and sung a song to me. I didn't know what to do that time, but yeah time changes.

Thanks for the reply, I really appriciate it!

Okay. So you want to go into a no holds barred MMA match without practice.

Then just ask her out then.

It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Learn some body language reading and projecting skills and you'll be fine. However, when a person's body language projection and reading skills are still rough, the tendency or odds for a successful sarge is rather slim.

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Okay

So in short: Learn some body language reading and show my sexual intensions to her. Overtime she will be horny and at that moment I will ask her out.

Thank you

hi Dzifa,

not to discourage you, but be aware you could be friendzoned already. Or she already notices that you like her, but didn't have the courage to open her.

Why wait to learn reading body language? This is a waste of time. You have to attract her, show your value/DHV. You don't show sexual intentions! This makes the girl think you only want sex.

Overtime she will be horny???! Dude what are you thinking?? This will not happen. And why you wait with asking her out? Don't forget many guys are already approaching her, you are probably not aware of this.

In a nutshell: open her, ask her for coffee, tease/neg, DHV, create attraction, calibrate and you are there!

It is all right, we are all here to help each other.
I ment that I should show more DHV, and that I should hug and touch her a bit more often. Because at the moment I don't do that.
Good point.

What do you mean with calibrate ?

Thanks for your opinion.

He means read her body language and adjust your game to her reaction. Hahaha.

No need to DHV. She already knows you're high value. She sang a song for you naked and you didn't make a move on her. Thus, all you need is to make her horny and calibrate your moves properly.

Why go back to square 1 when you're already ahead, hmm?

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