Hi new to this site.. hope this is the right place to post this shiz.
Basically I met this girl a couple of weeks ago called Keria. Was at my friends house (who is a lesbian) and I knew she had just gotten a girlfriend recently so I presumed it was her. Thought she was hot as fuck and friendly to me but I didn't think of anything of it.
I find out it wasn't my friends gf... I go to my friends house regularly good friends with her and her brother, turns out this girl is living there at the moment no idea why. Second time I met her was last friday now this time I liked her a lot more (knowing she wasn't a lesbian) luckily its a normal thing for me to go there and meet new people. Spent a good 3-4 hrs with her and my friends and she kept asking me questions about me and my life etc but I didn't ask many back. Now I am not sure if this is normal for her or not.. but when I hot girl shows interest in you what are you meant to think eh?

I didn't make any moves or ask for a number not even added her on facebook my idea is to play it cool. Returned Tuesday and spent another good 4 hrs with her even leant her some money for "lady things" even helped wash up to try and make a good impression!
Thing is.. I don't really know how to flirt with her without making things awkward because I go over there all the time and if she's there well be weird if i said the wrong thing. I am not sure when the situation is appropriate...
I can't even tell if she likes me or is just being friendly and she is out of my league anyway... I will admit my past 2 relationships started online so I am pretty inexperienced in getting girls in person. I want to flirt with her and maybe hint that I like her a bit without it being awkward. She laughs at my jokes and stoned rambling ( we all smoke together) makes me cups of tea (which are fucking amazing), asks me personal questions and I like her more every day now. I know a lot of things on this site are to just get laid but I don't want that. I am returning on Friday and I need help. I want to ask her out and spend some alone time with her but I am too nervous to ask and then I worry that the date will fail I.e saying the wrong with or running out of things to say. Sorry for this being so long but I need help on this.. Planning on shaving this shit beard tomorrow and getting a hair cut and going over there hopefully looking more attractive!

Why not ask your lesbian friend what she knows? If she likes you she'll have talked to your friend(The lesbian) and said something about you being cute or whatever.

There's two outcomes to this: 1. She's been blabbing to her friend about how she likes you or 2. She's not said a thing which either means she's not interested or she's very guarded with who she likes. One thing is for certain: Your friend will know and be able to either tell you there and then or find out easily enough.

There's nothing embarrassing with gaming someone in your social circle. Worst case scenario: She doesn't like you and everyone knows you liked her and got turned down -- You just move on after this as if it's not a big deal and no one else ends up caring! So, with that in mind follow the golden rule of gauging interest in you! Look for three IOIs before you close her.

Look at this list and ask if many of them apply to your situation: iois-the-complete-list-vt12025.html

If you find she's doing a lot of what's on that list then chances are she's into you. Generally you'll wait for three IOIs to confirm her interest in you before closing her.

If she's throwing IOIs at you and you can't bring yourself to kiss her try this: Say something like this out of the blue -- cut her off in mid sentence -- "You're really cute, you know that." then slow your body language down, slowly escalate with kino(Touch her leg, arm, shoulder or face) then go and kiss her. When you tell her she's cute you'll get immediate feedback. If she blushes she likes you. If she shies away she likes you. If she gets serious and doesn't look too pleased she's not into it. If she likes you she's going to wait after you say she's cute. If she doesn't like you she's either going to brush it off or quickly change subject or find something distracting like calling a friend over. You'll know how she feels about you after you deliver that line. If she's into you just go to kiss her.

Woa thanks for the quick response man. I read the list and there are one or two on their that seem familiar I think I need to watch her body language more because I try not to look at her to much to not weird her out haha.
Maybe I might ask my friend not sure if that would look bad or not asking like that!
Don't you think just kissing her like that would be a bit... forward? I understand you gotta have game but feels a bit mad haha not something I would do! Not once kissed a chick like that! Maybe if I see the 3 IOIs I might give it ago but if I get arrested for sexual assault I blame you would prefer to go on a date or two before i kiss her but thats not very manly is it hah Any tips on maybe asking for her number? Should probably just.. ask her!

Asking a mutual friend if her friend is into you is fine. More times than not you would be surprised at how well it goes. You'll either be told she's into you or she's not into you. Save you a lot of face in the long run and allows you to move on sooner rather than later if she's not that into you. Just say "Your friend is cute. Do you think she'd be interested in me/a guy like me?" It's simple and just throwing it out there that you find her attractive, nothing more.

Being forward with kissing a girl... Well, yes and no. It totally depends on the situation and environment such as if you're on any "social lubricants" -- drugs, booze, etc. If alcohol is involved it's kind of a given that if a girl is into you you can be forward and kiss her. If you're not drinking just play it slow, flirt with her, get her number and then ask her out or get her to come out to a pub or club with you and some friends.

Then again, having said that... as a PUA your mentality should be completely different. You should be seizing these opportunities and not caring about any negative outcomes. You should presume you're going to get the girl anyway. You need to change your mindset to this way of thinking.

Also, don't be afraid to look at her. If you shy away from eye contact you're showing a weakness and a lack of interest. You want to convey to a woman that you could be interested, not that you are but could be interested to spike their attraction. If they're already really into you then don't be afraid to let them know you like them. Your whole body language should be strong and masculine which includes holding eye contact, holding her hand when you shake it and not shying away from touching her.

If you want her number just ask for it. "Hey, give me your number. We can hang out sometime." While saying this just hand her your phone. Easy as!

New to this PUA stuff but thats some pretty good advice. Well we usually get high. Seeing her tomorrow gonna get it on. I am going to get her and if I don't tough shit eh! I admit I am a wuss when it comes to this but gotta grow some balls right?