Hi everyone...these are my newbie questions:

1) How should I react when a girl is in my bed already (I did not FC yet) and start to teasing me? I mean I notice that she was playing with me, obviously I did not force anything, she refuses to take her bra when I tried, so I continued kissing her for a while, tried again after a couple of minutes and again...then after like 15 minutes she told me that she needed to go home...she told me "I love to tease you" after that and I felt like a total idiot.

2)The same girl started acting like this: I met a friend of age and she grab my arm when I talked to her ... then this girl said " I didnt like that, bla bla and I didnt know if you are deserving to go out with me today bla bla. I told her she is being childish and she said she was just kidding. But she already did this 3 times with different topics and obviously she is not kidding and is trying to manipulate me. How should I act with this kind of girl? I managed to FC her but after a while she dumped me and I felt that It was because I was weak with her.

3) How should I react when I have a disappointing sexual performance? This happened 1 time with me ( with a different girl) and I felt like I lost all the control of the interaction with the girl after that. Should I apology? Pretend nothing happened? She did not criticized me or looked upset but I think that I lost my confidence with this girl because after that I felt like she started to dominate the relationship and I am anxious about the next time we will make sex.

Sorry about the english and thanks.

Tell her you've gone celibate (no sex) and kissing is ok but not more. She obviously knows how much sex means to you so if you take it away... she hasn't the leverage over you