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| Cupid_007 | PostPosted: Thu Feb 27, 2014 8:03 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Mon Dec 17, 2012 10:10 pm Posts: 251 | | Here's something that will massively improve your game.
And it's obvious but I doubt that even 5% of the community does this.
HAVE A CONVERSATION WITH A FEMALE EVERY DAY. VIA TEXT OR PHONE/SPAM (IF NOT POSSIBLE TO DO SO LIVE). PREFERABLY THE LATTER.
This will do the following things to your game.>>>
1. ABUNDANCE MENTALITY
It's very hard to not come off as needy if you are needy in reality. By talking to multiple girls per week you will actually have real abundance. You will experience abundance first hand. This will do miracles for your game because it will help destroy any subtle "needy" vibe that you project to other people.
2. NORMALIZE GIRLS FOR YOU
By talking to girls rarely what you do is that they inevitably are placed in a pedestal. You are thinking to yourself OMG, I am talking to a girl!!!!! This is a SPECIAL experience for me because I do it so rarely.
And this sends a needy vibe. And an emotionally reactive vibe. By talking to girls every day you are training yourself to not make a big deal out of talking to girls. It's normal. You do it fuckin every day. Talking to her is nothing special. You sincerely don't care. You're very chill...
This lack of emotional reactivity and non-needy will attract females.
3. MOTIVATION
Personally knowing that at some point during the day i'm going to be in the presence of an attractive female is motivating for me.
4. SUBSTITUTE FOR OTHER FORMS OF ENTERTAINMENT
I have a weakness for movies and videogames. I've wasted much time on this. By talking to girls you are releasing that need to have a break and relax in a productive way.
5. GOOD PRACTICE. SHARPENS YOUR SKILLS AND MAINTAINS THEM.
It's impossible to have badass skills and a player intuition without practice.
Additionally, your skills can get rusty and weaken without maintaining them. Keep them sharp so they will be ready for when you need them.
6. HELP YOU DEVELOP ROUTINES.
After talking with her you will look back and record down things that really worked in the conversation in your "player's routine notebook" so you can use them with other females.
7. KEEP YOU IN SOCIAL MODE.
If you haven't talked to girls in a long time then getting back into that mode will take sometime. You will need to warm-up and in the process of doing so you will get probably get rejected by multiple sets. However, if your social mode is always on because you talk to girls on a daily basis then getting warmed up will be easier.
Additionally, keeping yourself in social mode is important if you already have female friends and are you're attempting to maintain a friendship/relationship with them. WHAT IF they call /text you randomly? If you're not in social mode you can easily screw up your response. By talking to girls on a daily basis, you will already be in social mode when she calls or texts you. You'll be ready.
8. SOCIAL PROOF
You can call your female friends and have a conversation with them on speaker phone while still with another female as social proof.
Additionally you can talk to her about their lives for social proof.
9. PROVE TO YOURSELF THAT YOU HAVE GAME
You can claim that you have badass game all you want. But if you can't even maintain relationships/friendships with a few girls then you have no proof that you have game.
10. HAVE MULTIPLE FRIENDS SO YOU CAN CALL THEM UP FIRST TO WARM UP BEFORE YOU CALL UP THE GIRL THAT YOU REALLY WANT.
11. STRENGTHEN NEW GAME TACTICS BY MERE REPETITION
Let's say you've developed a new routine stack. Wouldn't it be awesome to strengthen it by calling up 7 girls in a row and using it on all 7 of them? That way it would be super pimp tight and ready to use infield for the girl that matters most.
12. EMOTIONAL SUPPORT
Guys complain that girls use them as emotional tampons. The guy becomes her therapist. Flip the script. Talk to your female friends about your current life issues and use them for emotional support.
(Note: this may decrease your chances of getting laid with that girl so consciously friendzone her first before deciding that she's more worthy for you as a "therapist").
(Note2: don't become a fuckin wimp when doing so. girls are attracted to emotionally strong males. just because you're using her as a therapist doesn't mean you should become a boy.)
(Note3: make sure you have enough game to compensate for the fact that you're showing a weak side of yourself.)
(Note4: And finally establish strength before expressing vulnerability.).
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| knightitup | PostPosted: Tue Mar 18, 2014 3:56 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Mar 16, 2014 2:38 am Posts: 19 | | I think this is sound advice. Although in my situation I can't really practice any game since we work together, literally on the same team for projects sometimes. But normalizing talking to women, she's not a 10, but there isn't any man in the building who doesn't think she's really cute. It definitely helps in other situations.
We message back and forth and talk face to face about work, life, hobbies, joke about creepy guys going way out of their way to talk to her, etc.
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