Once this jock guy, who is good at girls, told me that his secret is that every girl secretly wants a jock.

I've been trying to figure out if this statement is true or not. I've heard that its not the fact that the guy is a jock that girls find attractive but it's his cockyness/confidence that girls want because girls want security and this cockyness/confidence provides that.

Also when I ask girls the "does every girl secretly want a jock" question they all so no. But a usual reply is that they want someone who is confident or someone who thinks he can get any girl he wanted.

So pretty much girls want someone who is confident/cocky because it offers them security. Also jocks have this quality so it makes sense that they are generally good with girls. Am I right?

Yep, that's about it. They are cocky and the know they are the shit.

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Hah, yeah of course the cocky jock who sees you as competition and realizes you are looking to him for advice with women will tell you that. He'll make you feel worse, discourage you from trying and make himself feel better in front of you.

Of course all women don't want jocks! Women like slight cockiness, and many jocks are cocky, so that's the origin of that misconception. In fact, there are many women who don't want anything to do with athletic types. Trust me, there are whole subcultures/fetishes out there that you don't know anything about. Some women chase fat guys, some short guys, some guys of a certain ethnicity, career, musical taste, fashion, eye color, literally any trait you can think of. There are women out there who want to have sex with you, believe me, if you would only talk to them and stop worrying about what some dumb jock told you. Focus on the pussy, not other guys.

My take on it is that it is probable. It's something in their subconscious, primal desire to want the Alpha males aka Jocks. But look around, is every woman in the world married to jocks? So, since it is subconscious, a lot of women don't necessarily know what they want, so the way we level the playing field is with PU techniques.

I'm not saying, be a complete fat slob and go out and game girls. No. It definitely helps increase the odds of success if you're in better shape, have better style, etc. Regardless, you can't let your physical features get you down, because, believe it or not, there are jocks out there that are AFCs as well. I've known guys in way better shape than me that are insecure as hell. They have the desirable physical features, but still feel they "need to work on their delts", their "legs are too skinny", they have a "mole they need removed", etc. That's where the Alpha personality comes into play.

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It's not that they want jocks, it's that they want a guy who is confident and takes care of himself. It just so happens that a jock, who works out regularly and is involved in some competitive sport(s), will develop both of those qualities naturally.

It's like a television advertisement.

A good athlete who can do things that the average guy cannot do and seen in public doing those things is a broadcasted advertisement of sexual fitness. Same goes with rock bands who jump, gyrate, bend, and so on and so forth on stage playing heart pounding music.

So if you're an average guy who do not advertise (approach women or narrowcasting), then how can you get laid? You have to sell yourself to get laid. That simple.

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