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Me: Hello, nice shoes you have got.
She: No need to butter.
If I gave somebody a compliment and she said, "No need to butter", maybe she thinks you're not being sincere. I might tell her that I thought she was really attractive and noticed she had pretty shoes...I had to walk over and compliment her.
I like this answer better ^_^! The answer of being sincere! It is more versatile and can be applied to any hiccups you come upon during your interactions ... Here is the step by step instruction to this ... It's called calibrating after the fact - by Julien of RSD
Calibrating after the fact is when you take action with out thinking about the consequences, but calibrate by dealing after you've taken an action and you deal with the random situation. But, if you do this enough (approach so much) ... you will know all the patterns that girls can give you and you know how to deal with them with your experience!
When you come upon a hiccup
1) Step back
2) Statement of empathy (The definition of empathy is ... the ability to understand anthers feelings)
3) Act like it never happened
Example: Going for the make out but she resists.
1) Go for make out even though it is not there ...
- Girl resists ... but doesn't say no.
2) Understand what she is thinking ... maybe her friends are near by ... it's to much of a leap in the interaction ... etc etc ...
- Counter with a statement of empathy
"Only 2 seconds, 2 seconds ... they won't see ... I have broad shoulders."
"It doesn't count as sex."
3) Ignore her resistance and go for the make out.
You can even avoid the girl saying any shit test like "You don't have to butter it" ... before she says it ...
- When you approach ... you can immediately use a statement of empathy like what johngoldman said to avoid any resistance ... Typical statement of empathy are ...
1) I saw you and I had to meet you.
2) ... I'm here with my friends and I can't stay long but ...
3) 2 seconds 2 seconds I just wanted to meet you.
4) Totally random ... but I had to meet you.
5) I know ... you must be thinking ... who the hell is this stranger coming to talk to me ... but, anyways ...
6) I'm such an asshole for stealing you from your friends ...
The point is that as long you understand how she feels and you say that to her ... you can then ignore it and continue on ... tahahahhahaa
Politicians do this all the time to calm down angry protestors.
Protestors: "We don't like how you are sending our people to fight in Iraq!"
Obama: "I understand you guys don't like how we are sending soldiers to Iraq ... but here is some news coverage for your protests ... But, I will still send soldiers to Iraq."
tahhahaa
Hope that helped,
Donston!