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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 12:24 pm 
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So, i´ve been out of the scene for quite some time because i've had priority on other things than getting girls (study, work etc.), and I turned rather AFC. Before I always was very very direct nightgamer -> Plain asking girls if they want to come with you.

So, this is a daygame problem, and a really tough one imo. here's the situation:

SPAM im studying, and i have this mad mad mad mad hot teacher.
The semester will end in 2 weeks and then I will get other teachers.

How the hell am I going to get her far enough to go get a drink with me?
Could I just ask her 'hey, strange question but feel like getting a drink today'? Or will that be way too creepy.
Or shouldn't I do this at all.

Just thinking of approaching her creeps me out, usually I dont have AA, this time I do D=.
Hope you guys can help me, sorry for crappy layout, rather in a hurry while typing this.

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 3:01 pm 
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Use the ruse to get 'special assistance'.

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 1:44 am 
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Use the ruse to get 'special assistance'.
Yeah, just ask her after class for help, and say you're on your way to the bar and suggest she come along.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 2:51 pm 
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Use the ruse to get 'special assistance'.
Yeah, just ask her after class for help, and say you're on your way to the bar and suggest she come along.
Wouldn't something like a coffee shop or something a little less obvious work a bit better? I'd be a little concerned that that suggestion would sound just as thin to her as it is.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 3:40 pm 
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How old are you? This is college or university I'm guessing (I hope)...

Consider she's just another girl. She's your equal once she's not your teacher... and yeah - isolate her with a request for extra help or even just say you had something you wanted to speak to her about... (then you've got to come up with something to actually talk about, however -- or at least the premise of something).

Coffee shop seems FAR more obvious to me... And easier for her to shoot down.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 3:47 pm 
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Based on the way you phrased your question. . . you're already out.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 5:42 pm 
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Go to office hours and show her that you're cool. Ask her what she's doing over break. Invite her to do something interesting. That "special assistance" ruse is totally transparent.

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 5:44 pm 
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Also, this:
http://www.mademan.com/mm/how-have-sex-teacher.html

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 17, 2014 3:48 am 
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This guy said what I think you should do. It will probably be a bit obvious if you go straight to a bar. Not much input by me, just wanted to toss a few cents.

[/quote]Wouldn't something like a coffee shop or something a little less obvious work a bit better? I'd be a little concerned that that suggestion would sound just as thin to her as it is.[/quote]

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 18, 2014 9:11 am 
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Thanks for the replies.
I'll try direct approach after my last class, that way I got most chance.

Thanks for the replies guys :)

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 18, 2014 7:54 pm 
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You could ask her about her job as a teacher, just showing interest in her in a normal way, as you would with anyone. Then lead the conversation to drop a question like "is it like in the movies, where the pupils flirt with the teacher, and you have lots of temptations to resist?" with a big smile. That will give her a suggestion without saying anything direct. Then you end the conversation with a "just kidding...", as if you want to say "I'm NOT hitting on you", and then end with a playful "or am I?" and leave the class room.

If it works, she will look at you in a different way the next time you see her. Just smile back at her and pretend that you are innocent until you have a chance to talk in private again. That is when you make your move. "If you find it hard to resist the temptation, you could always give in and join me for a drink tonight".


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