It's our first date meeting in person, but we've been talking online for a while. We'll be watching some romantic movies. I'm not very experienced! Any advice for good conversation (especially with a movie going on), how I should touch her, and escalating to at least a kiss?

Goal is to be in a relationship with this girl, so don't even need to kiss/sex if I can win her heart otherwise. Oh, and I'll be seeing her for 2 days in a row. She says she's unsure about me spending the night (understandable, hasn't even met me), so we could fix that, or properly allocate my time with her over 2 days. Feel like kissing during the first day is better though. What do you think?

That's funny, I am in the same situation this saturday, except it's our third date.

Here's my advice if you want to be in a relationship: Don't jump into sexual things.

You can kino escalate (touch her arm, her leg during jokes... or if you're cuddling, that's already a huge connection. You could tell her she's got a beautiful neck and rub it softly). But in my strongest opinion, avoid sex and sexual things for now if you want a relationship. I doubt mine will escalate, she truly is a good girl, but if it does I will tell her we should wait because I want our connection to be beyond sexual.

this is the surest way to voluntarily put yourself into the friend zone. always escalate physically and romantically especially if you want a relationship. you can dictate how far you want to go but the key is to ignite the flame and not to let it die. this applies even to the good girls only you may need to calibrate. you don't have to have sex if you don't want to, but definitely be sexual.

even if she is the good girl they still want you to try

What if she flakes on day 2 ?

You need to make out. Probably foreplay. There's no rule if you want a relationship with some girl you shouldn't fuck her.

This thread is dead but god damn was that a funny read from the second poster. Haha.

Oh lord.

How about if you don't know what the hell you are talking about, stop giving advice?

No I'm not giving advice, not because I don't know what I'm talking about, but because people who make believe they are helping are really chodes that are making things worse (ESPECIALLY the 2nd poster on this thread.)

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