No game over here...seeking advice in my situation. thanks ahead of time

OK, friday night I'm at a club. I see a two set. I go up to the cuter one and firmly introduce myself. She does her intro and then I say to her 'so you think you're too cool to dance with the rest of us', she smiles and says 'well, I just got here'. I reply with 'So where's your drink?'. She answers with 'I just got here, I'm promoting for an event later this week'. Then I ask her 'So who are you here with?'. She introduces me to her friend and I say 'It's so nice to meet you blah blah blah' and I grab my boy/wing and introduce her to him to get rid of any potential CB.

I turn back to the target and ask 'so what kind of event is this' She gives me the details (I couldn't care less really). I reply sarcastically 'You seem to be doing a A LOT of work right now' then smile and giggle at her. She smiles back and says 'I'm always so busy, always working' Naturally then I lead in with the question of whre she works. She tells me and then i say to her 'Give me your number, I'll call you sometime' she instead gives me her business card, I say back to her 'no, no. Your mobile' she replies with 'I'm always at work though just give me a call sometime'. Then she adds 'I should really start promoting this event'. I really shouldn't have done this, but I reply by saying 'here, give me a few flyers ill help ya out' So i do exactly that, she follows me and i talk to some dude hand him the flyer and tell him he should come out.

At this point i'm losing interest very quickly and need to go hit up some other chicks so i turn back to the target and hand her my phone and tell her 'Hey why don't you put your number in here' So she starts to (I think?), then my other friend hollas at me and tells me to come over to meet a group of chicks he met. So I say to her 'I'll be right back'.

I go over to my boy and we all do the intros, we all have shots and I got a little too hammered. I totally forgot about the original target and we leave the club for some late night eats. I realize my phone is gone so my friend/wing calls it. The target answers and says she has it but she has already headed home. She tells my friend/wing that I can pick it up another time.

Saturday afternoon she calls my friend/wing and tells him to relay a message to me about when she would be available to meet up again but mentions she's very busy thoughout the week with work. She said I could pick it up sunday evening or later in the week possibly at the event she was promoting for. I tried to call my phone to pick it up but there was no answer. This might have worked out to my favor?

Superbowl Sunday I bought another phone and transferred the account and # from my old phone to my new one. Anyhow, I'm totally sauced watching the game and she calls my phone. I do not answer not knowing what the # is (I don't answer unrecognized numbers). the Target had called leaving me a long ass message.

Summarizing the message: "Hey Mike, it's Mary. I have your cell phone! I've been trying to get a hold of you. Anyways, I'm home now so if you want you can come pick it up right now, I know it's superbowl sunday so you're probably watching the game...If not...monday night...I can't I have work arrangements...I will be at the event Thursday. <insert her promotion here>. It would be fabulous if you came out since it's for a good cause...we could hook up there and I can give you your phone.......If not I am leaving for Europe for a month On saturday so we should definately hook up before then. You can call me at home (xxx)xxx-xxxx again thats (xxx)xxx-xxxx or at my work (xxx)xxx-xxxx ext. xxx again thats (xxx)xxx-xxxx. I'm usually always at home if not at work....so yeah talk to you soon...'

I have not called her since and its monday noon. Is there anything here? did I already blow my time window (if i had one)? If there is anything, what should I do next? I want to dick this chick before she leaves. I was thinking of feeling her out by emailing her (since shes at work right now) with a brief message and then adding how i'm very busy right now (which i appear to be since i've typed out this novella for all you ) Thanks ahead for your suggestions, try not to flame me too hard

Thats a big IOI, shes leaving soon, so she wants to hook up asap. Your time frame to lay this girl is like 3-4 days, i think you can do it! set a date for today, being monday, take her out and demonstrate some value, kiss close, do kino all the way through, including holding hands, streaking shoulder, all throughout this date. Than invite her the following day which will be tuesday or Wednesday either! for a followup at your place! Watch a movie, keep your kino up, make her feel compy all night, than lay her before she goes and you can have follow up sex on friday or whatever and Saturday go take her to the airport where she can leave and you can open chicks that just arrived to your city.

Is there anything here?
I believe so! definatly.

Did I already blow my time window (if i had one)?
Nah its alright, shes after you, and seems to have no one else lined up that shes equally interested for the moment.

If there is anything, what should I do next?
Already answered.

Your game wasn't solid at all, but shes interested non the less, so go for it!

Some thoughts

- Impact

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She's Giving you a time frame!!!!
Use it!

you guys are right, i naturally have doubts being new to this sort of stuff. All pickups i have done previously weren't structured. I guess you can call it the AFC approach except I'm kind of a dick at times so not quite a chump...i guess its right, girls like a challenge. BTW i failed to mention when i met her at the club there was heavy kino being provided by me. I find this works a lot. I only recently started reading this PUA stuff and it really does reinforce what has worked for me in the past.

anyhow, status update (sorry no field report). Its tuesday and so far, she has invited me over sunday night, and monday night. I've been really busy so have brushed her off a little. This wasn't intentional so I hope i didn't ruin my window. If anything shouldnt she be getting antsy? I can't speak though as I'm not an experienced PUA. My intentions tonight is to pick at her then compliment then kino and repeat...any recommendations though?

Well i think its obvious that she is definatelly wanting something to happen, Hell she's going out of her way to make sure that you know when it can!
keep up the Kino, How far have you got so far!?
If things start getting "Hot" make sure that you take control and if need be, just go "Caveman" and freeze her out if she gives you any LMR!
Keep us up 2 date!!!

my terminology isnt the greatest, what do you mean by caveman? i know last minute resistance

Sorry mate,
Caveman - as i just acting on your primal urges and not caring about anything else! For example if your kissing her and she says "Wow this is moving a little fast! In a Negative way, just say "Yeah your right" And Keep Kissing Her!

1 that i do is if im laying next to a girl, kissing her - all i can think is "She wants it!" So i'll take her hand and put it on my crotch and get things rolling - or even undo my trousers and encourage her to do what i want! Works every time!!!

Make Sense?

isn't that risky? if she says no you run the risk of her screaming rape?

Not really - Personally, as far as im concierned is that if im laying there with someone making out like f*ck, she's thinking exactly what im thinking! I never worry about being rejected!
I really believe that women are dirtier and want it more - they are just better at hidding it!, and by sarging your giving her the revavent connections and justifications to feel confortable enough to "Get Wild"!
If i did it and she looked a lil shocked i'll say something like "Dont worry it wont bite" and wink But if she is still not happy, i'll freeze her out!
I have done this about 4 times, and only once i have had to freeze a girl out ONCE! and when we got started again she didnt stop (Shame she was a really crap Sh*g Tho)
You can always judge it - sometimes i'll just put her hand under my shirt on my abs and tense like hell! Lol. And work it from there - building up thro the touch barrier!

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what would be an example of freezing her out? hehe

Depends really - id say to freeze someone out it to totally ruin the SPAM and stop and Sexual contact so she thinks "Ok wahts happening"
So if your say in your bed and the lights are off, when she starts with LMR, just get up and turn the light on, say you have just remembered you have to check something and perhaps check your emails!
One i did for example, was i was in my mates flat, he was with his target in the bedroom i was in the living room, Kissing this girl and i let my hands roam towards her undies, but she stopped me! So i just said "I'll b bk now!" and went to the kitchen to get some water!
Within bout 30 secs she was out there with me, so i just finished my drink and said "Com On" and took her back to the coutch!
Managed to start fingering her before her mate came in and totally ruined the mood cos she "Had To Go"
Id say that Freezing someone out is basically taking away the sexual contact away so she thinks why is this happening - so next time you start, subcontiously, she'll remember exactly what happened the last time she gave LMR and hopefully will want to aviod the akwardness!

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oh I love that lol!

status update: what the shit is going on... i call her up last night at her work (she works late). So we arrange to meet up at her place. I tell her to call me back before she leaves so I can head on over. She never called though so I eventually just go to sleep. I wake up to a text message on my phone saying she wanted to call me back but didn't have my # at her office. She said she got home really late too. So im at work right now and checked my emails, i got one from her really late last night stating the same. I'm so turned off ugh!!!!

Remember Ryder, you gotta stay Possitive and act like it doesn't phase you, like you dont care that she blew you off, cos you "Had Stuff to do anyway! So you dont care less!"
What i would do is call her up and arrange for her to come over your's for a Movie or something - But word it like - i just got this film out it looks really funny, you should come over and watch it!"

Anyone else think there would be a better way about going about it!??

Climax

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haha so...status update:

she calls me late yesterday night (wednesday night around 10pm) and leaves a VM 'hey i'm just getting off work now...if you wana come pick up your phone tonight just give me a shout' ... So i wait a good 30 mins for her to get home and build a little anticipation. I call back and tell her i got a few things to do but ill swing by in a bit. When I finally arrive she comes out and gives me my phone. I hold her shoulders, smile and thank her for not being the thief that I thought she was.... she laughs. I look into her eyes and notice this chicks pupils are dilated insanely (I've been reading supercats art of approaching). So I chance it... I give her a hug. Thank her again and head towards my car leaving her standing there. She just froze there...I turn around and say...hey, let's go for a drink. She says yes right away (hahahaha). So i ask her do you know any place open around here? She says 'ya there's a pub around the corner...but why don't you come in, I've got some great wine'. At this point I know I'm in, I don't even drink wine but i responded to her 'cool, sounds good.'
So when we get inside...she starts pouring us some..rather large glasses. We small talk for a bit on her couch. I ask her to play some tunes so she puts on some slow r & B. Now, i was thinking of just going caveman on her but instead i see an album of pictures from her travels. So automatically I'm like 'hey give me a tour of your world' and point to her album...she grabs it and lies down on me and starts flipping pages. At this point i'm doing some heavy kino on her arms...eventually her waist...then up...then neck... and then. Well you know the rest. I didn't leave until 6am, and I got into work today (i dont know how) at 8am. It was worth it though.

Thanks for the input guys, we can all help eachother out!

Yeah Baby!
Great to Hear Ryder
Looks like there's another one for the "Lay Report"

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