So I was at this part with friends, no big deal, came home and logged onto facebook and this chick sent me a friend request. I added her and we began talking. She said she saw me at the party, etc

I threw a few negs at her, did some flirting, and got her phone #.

The next day I text her, and she text me.. back and forth.

Today, the same thing happened. We were texting each other, flirting, having a good time, etc

I said "Would it be wrong if I started liking you"

Her text "This is her friend Sarah, it's to early to like Lisa, and she's already talking with someone else.. sorry"

So basically I got shut down...

What went wrong here?

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Pimpin Ain't Easy But It's Necessary...

That says is ALL right there. And, after two days???

"Would it be wrong if I started liking you" <---- There's your problem.

You showed way too much interest, way too early in the game and you sounded like you were asking for her approval.

DAMNIT... Im so pist at myself

So, can anyone here recommend a better way of going about it?

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Pimpin Ain't Easy But It's Necessary...

Yeah. Sarge other girls. IF you still have the friendship with her, then build that up. You can flirt more later.

No I meant, how would you have done it if you were in my situation from the start?

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Pimpin Ain't Easy But It's Necessary...

That is the way you do it.

Then you start sarging her friend.

The line I pointed out to you . . . I wouldn't have used it. Instead, I would have kept teasing, push/pulling, possibly negging, just built more attraction and comfort.

>Would it be wrong if I started liking you?

Breaking this sentence down I see two big fuck-ups. One already mentioned.

When you want to do something confidently, you say it like a question.

When you open a set with an opinion test. You don't say, "I'm sorry for butting in, but can I ask your opinion?"

You say, "Hey I want a female opinion on this please."

Secondly, the word WRONG has negative connotations. You're subconsciously, implanting negative vibes on this chick. You have unwittingly told her any relationship you might have is going to end up going wrong...

And trying to escalate the relationship so soon reeks of one thing, AFC.

THERE YOU GO! You're thinking right where you need to be now.