Hi everybody.

I had very poor social skills in high school and didn't have a good time at all. So when I went to college I was excited that I would finally have my time in the sun filled with girls, friends, and all the adventures that come along with this time. But I didn't do so well there either. After graduating, I spent about two years in the work force and just kept to myself but I always dreamed of a social life. Eventually, I found a ten week dating program in NYC which I took over the summer of 2013. Although I'm still not where I would like to be, I responded to the training very well and began doing things that were unknown to me ever before - approaching strangers in bars and clubs, went on a few dates, made out with a girl at a club just a few minutes after meeting her. It was great. Shortly afterwards, I came to Ireland to go to grad school where I am now. Unfortunately, I am up to my eyeballs in studying because it is two years of work crammed into one and my social skills training will have to wait until I'm back in New York in September.

What is driving me crazy, though, is that I am beginning to think that I missed out on the experiences that come with youth. I'm 28 now and will be about to turn 29 when I get back. I look at pictures of people who I went to high school/college with on facebook. If you scroll up from oldest to most recent, you see a change. Houses filled with lots of carefree people give way to cocktail parties in suits and dresses and everything I read says that people in their early 30s are more interested in settling down and not the fast pace anymore. I am NOT saying I want to live out my life as a giant 20 year old but I would like to be part of some of the things I missed out on. I am going to get a job and will do the cocktail parties/settling down part but it would be nice to at least have a look at the other part. I probably won't fit in at any frat parties but it would be nice to do some of the other things that are common around college time - house party, spring break maybe; if I could find some people around my age who are not completely ready to settle down, that would be great. So I was wondering do people in their late 20s/early 30s exist and how can I find them? I have a bit of an advantage being from the NYC area but I'll probably still have to do a bit of work. My guys from my dating community will probably be able to help but I've lost touch with them for now so I'm relying on you guys. Please help me out. Thanks.

All you have to do is get up and go meet some people. You can't wait for things to just happen out of nowhere. Try signing up for activities, you can learn new things from it too. Take dance classes, volunteer for something you have always dreamed of, pursue a passion and join clubs that support that passion. Don't just keep sitting like that wasting your life and regretting things later on.

You have no excuse to not close your laptop and go out. It's hard at first, but it gets more and more fun the larger your social circle becomes. Start off by getting to know guys from bars, to bartenders, to managers and finally go to girls. You'll find it a lot easier going to a bar you are already used to, not to mention knowing everyone there. Don't stick to one place, always change venues. You'll find yourself popular in no time and more people will get to know you.

Make something out of yourself before it's too late.

My prime was at 32, i am 39 now still getting better pussy than ever in my life... As long as you look good, have masculine behavior and your style handle you are fine... Hit the gym and get your bf % under 12% that along with reverse again by 10 years.

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I just turned 30, and I feel that I am just getting into my peak years. I too missed out on college, having lots of experiences when I was in my 20's and only started becoming really good a PU around 27-28.

I still go to college bars, and I still pull. You are just arriving at your prime. You can pull younger college age girls, professionals that are your age and older women.

There are TONS of men and women in their late 20s and early 30s that have no plans of settling down anytime soon. Enjoy your prime years, brother.

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