I am from Iran but I have been told I look Arab. For the past couple of weeks, I have not shaved so I have a thick beard, making me look even more Arab.
Yesterday I was sitting at a coffee shop working on my laptop and this girl and her friendzoned guy friend came in and sat next to me. It turned out that they were from my country but they thought I am Arab so the guy said in our native language “when is this guy who is sitting next to us going to leave? We need another table”
the girl said “he is a terrorist, he is probably planning to make a bomb”
then the guy said “he is researching that right now on his laptop”
then they laughed.

I wasn’t sure how to handle this. An AFC would get upset and complain to them, saying something like "I understand everything you said, asshole"
What would a confident guy do? What should I do if I ever see the girl again at the same location?

PS nothing against Arabs, the above conversation is literally what they said, not my fault.

Man that's one of those things where all you can do is laugh. What I would have done is when I'm finished my business there get up, and tell them both to have a very nice day in your native language. That would get your point across loud and clear, but say it with a smile. I had a similar situation with some amish they were talking about me and not very nicely in their language thinking I couldn't understand them. I butted in on their convo in their language then asked them how they would like it if I started talking about them in a language they didn't understand. I then proceeded to call them every foul name and word I could think of in Serbian to my brother after one asked me what I said I laughed and told him to fuck off in his own language.

Its one of those things if you can't react in a way that makes you laugh and feel good then simply don't react because its not worth getting bent out of shape over.

Anyway brother hope that helps good luck!!

I'm not sure if this is relevant to PU, but you should have said to them in your/their language with a don't give a fuck look, "No, not bombs, just (whatever it was you were looking up online)." They would have felt stupid.

I'm guessing you look forward to seeing her again, so if you do, I'd say something in you guys' language like "Hey, so where's your buddy, still on the hunt for terrorists?"

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I'm english and I agree that it makes ANYONE uncomfortable when you can't understand what someone is saying. If somebody tries to demeans you for something that is not your fault then take the upper hand.

This happened to me (not w/terrorists but people making fun of me in another language that I understood and could speak)... I just joked back at them. In your case, I would have played along jokingly.

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Most of the time you can just laugh off peoples' jabs. But racism is different.

You have to confront people when they're being racist. Not aggressively. Just take them aside (say something like, "Hey, can I talk to you for a second?") and talk to them peaceable. Say something like, "I get that you were making a joke, and it's all in good fun, but what your saying is ignorant and offensive. I don't want to fight you, but I don't want you to belittle me either. Don't make jokes about my race, or anyone else's race. Understand?"

If they give you any more shit then don't bother with them

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Anytime someone makes fun of you for something, play along with it and drag it along to a ridiculous extreme.

say, "I'm not making a bomb. I am the bomb-bitches"

In circumstances like this, I don't think there's any point to playing along and exaggerating. Given that the girl is a (seemingly racist) bitch and she's with this guy anyway, you aren't trying to game her, and you're not trying to impress anyone else your with. I'd do as said above, and just say something like "have a nice day" in the same language when you leave.

I was once in a lift in a shop (in England, where I'm from) and these two foreign girls came in and chatted in their own language. Thinking I couldn't understand them, one of the girls said "he's good looking" but the other one said "no, he's probably only a 6 or a 7".
I smiled to myself, and then when I left to get out of the lift, I turned to the first girl and said in their language "I preferred you anyway". The look on their faces was hilarious.

place a backpack on their table and tell them to watch it for you while you go to the bathroom.

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I would ask them, in the friendliest and most confident tone "Are you guys from (whatever country you think they are from)?"
This immediately shows them that you're:
a) A human, because it destroys whatever image they have of you instantly.
b) An alpha male. Because you are forgiving them and ignoring their hurtful actions, which takes having a tough shell. You know who has tough shells? Alphas.

Its very likely that they will admire you after you do this.

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"I am from Iran but I have been told I look Arab. For the past couple of weeks, I have not shaved so I have a thick beard, making me look even more Arab. Yesterday I was sitting at a coffee shop..."

l would have took out my dick and pissed on them both...and then left saying "have a nice day" in the language they could understand.