so i met this girl at work and we initially started talking and by the end of our conversation she invited me out for the weekend. before she left she asked for my number. the weekend came and went and she never texted me i see her at work the following and i didn't bring anything up and she said sorry for not texting you and i teased her a little bit with a neg she laughed and the proceeded to text me so i'd have her number. so fast forward to today and we've been texting everyday. she keeps telling me how busy she is and how she never has time for anything. she also keeps telling me that she's really into asian guys. im not asian. im white/hispanic and tan. not really sure why she's telling me her type? so shes told me on monday of this week that she wanted to get dinner thursday i agreed. yesterday (Thursday) she was taking forever to textt back and wouldn't really give me a straight answer on her plans. so i decide to give her an option i said "my friend is having people over you should come" she finally texted me back and asked if we would spend the night there and i said that we could if we wanted to she takes forever to text me back so i call her. shes ignores my call and texts me "its loud and i'm with a couple friends" then "pick me up in an hour" hour later i don't hear from her so i texted her where am i picking you up? then i call her and she ignores me again. i end up meeting up with another girls i've know for a long time. end of my night.

so heres my question is this chick just playing games with me or is she genuinely interested? (when were together in person she shows major ioi's finding reasons to touch me, staring at me, laughing at everything i say etc) she texted me sorry this morning and asked me what i did. i haven't responded and don't plan to.
what should i do? should i ignore her and just talk to her at work? should i just not waste my time? should i try to put her in the friend zone and just talk about other girls (ex she asked me what i did last night i want to say i went home with a girl but i feel like thats super lame but would i help my game at all?)
thanks for the help guys!

1. Either she thinks your asian or she's just giving you a shit test. No different that walking up to a blonde and saying "too bad you're not a brunette". It's just playing games.

2. I never give a girl my number without getting hers in return. I'll even give it first but then say something like "text me so I'll know to actually respond to you." Just giving her your number and not asking for hers puts you in a non-masculine position. It's not a huge deal, it's obviously good she asked for yours, but every thing helps.

3. Definitely need to play more aloof. Next time she invites you out you're busy. If she gives you crap about it tease her with "at least I tell you ahead of time" or something similar. Begin to let her initiate contact. And don't get all excited when she does.

Stop hitting her up. She may enjoy flirting with u, but if she's cool blowing u off n isn't answering, she's not worth it. If she's with friends n is into u, she'd just excuse herself n hit u up. U don't want to be that weird guy from work who keeps hitting her up. Freeze her out, be awesome, n if she asks to hang out you can't now but maybe later. Don't let her cat - string u.

She is either keeping you as her spare (back up) boy friend or she is sick in the head or simply plain bored and playing games or perhaps she had just changed her mind at the last minute, that is normal. Advice?! Consider the fololwoing:

1- Never ever take it personally. It is normal and it happens a lot. Unelss you both do not have a formal long-term relation or living with each other, have kids or marriage or true LOVE or any sort of solid relation between man and a woman, you both kind of have the right to ditch each other anytime, without even notice.

2- Immedietly stop texting or calling that girl. If you dont see her daily I would have suggested that you text her something like "Wish Ya Good Luck" and never text again. But as you see her often then just DO NOT text or call her.

3- At work when you see her make it as you have No problem at all with her. Be nice to her, flirt banter, tease, touch her (if you can) BUT do not have any emotions on that. Put your self into the position where you are the one in control of that game NOT her. Never ask her out either. Just have fun with her.

4-Then and most importantly, go hit on all the girls that you are interested in at work, street, bar, anywhere. Date them and have fun and live your life. Never hold on into this girl (but just keep her as a spare tyre where she belongs). At work Let her see you that you are hitting on the girls and getting the girls and giving them a great time.

5- After sometime like at least a month or so and ONLY if you feel like doing that when you are in a really cool mood, when you see her at work grap her to the side and tell her that you have a little question and you need an honest answer; "Why did you ask me out the other day? and why did you ask for my number?"

Wish you all the best