Hey People,

Got a situation, and am confused; some input from the community would be awesome.

met a girl 3 weeks ago; she's super hot, funny, chill and very aggressive. Got together, banged it out 5-6 times at each of our apartments. Even spent a whole Sunday in bed, cuddling talking and fucking. I was getting into her. Then literally overnight she grew distant. Slept over on a Friday, had solid breakfast time Saturday, did our own thing Saturday and by Sunday morning it was different.

We had tentatively talked about getting together that Sunday - she had texted me at around 930pm Saturday night saying something cute about spending the day together and for me to call her when when I woke up. I didn't respond. Figured I'd call Sunday. Well, I call, no answer. Texts me some excuse, 'taking care of sick roommate', and ultimately tells me cant hang anymore due to some furniture delivery. She did mention that before to me. offered another day. I'm cool with it. But I sense a difference.

Hit her up Monday for Tuesday dinner date (we'd been out to din once already previous Thursday). She cant. too busy at work, overwhelmed with some project and a big work exam to study for(I knew of the exam). Not cool. I tease her a bit, but let her know I'd like to see her. Radio silent. This Wednesday I send friendly happy hump day text, no response. OK. Today I text her a few hours ago 'hey whatre your plans for tonight?' Nada.

Guys, what would you say is going on? Girl was crazy into me up until saturday night and then bam! She did freak about some other girl texting me and going on about only seeing 1 person and she was only seeing me. I assured her the girl meant nothing.

Thanks guys

i'm thinking she's been played before or was just recently hurt by ex or someone. How long have you known this girl? How did you meet her? How much of her history do you know?
what most likely happened is that text from another girl made her paranoid that your gonna play her or hurt her. girls get really sensitive especially if she has that i'm a good girl and not a slut self image so her thinking that she's just some other girl to you probably put her off especially after you guys had just spend a romantic weekend having sex.
my advice try to arrange a meeting with her and build that trust again assure her your a one women kind of guy and make sure you do not get texts from other girls.

let me know if this works out

Nah it never worked out. Even gave her a ring that Friday night, rang twice to voicemail! Who does that. Left VM saying hey it's me give me a call. Never called me back. Sent her a text the next Wednesday saying, 'hope you're alright, never heard back, had a great time with you, keep in touch and best of luck'. Obviously no answer.

Definitely confusing! I've never seen a girl go from aggressive interest and pursuit to straight cold ignoring, overnight. Rude to not give me an explanation, be it a lie or not. Bummer because was first girl in a while I actually saw myself more long-term with.

Any of you ever experience something similar? Girl totally into you and feels good (connection) and then bam! Over!?

Thanks guys