Looks matter a lot, actually is the fastest way to get better, looks, style and confidence(game)/social freedom being ballsy.

The sample of the op is a guy that has a lot of status and is very rich. It is very unlikely to have someone in his same situation achieve success. i would say .000000000000000000001% chance.

Though is a feel good story, lets no be delusional.

If you want to improve your results with women, and have higher quality type women, improve your looks, everybody should be trying to maximize their looks potential. People that say looks don't matter are the lazy dudes not trying to maximize their looks potential or gimmicky marketers.

IMHO fashion only helps that much. I used to be full alto, fair enough I'm still a bit alto, but I never had that much of a problem with that. It all boils down to what type of girl you want to get. Clothes make the man, if you're confident in your own looks women will pick up on that. The main stream dress shirt and slick shoes will be generally your best bet I guess.

But seriously, the band shirt ripped jeans look used to work quite well for me. Even in dating women that were older and good looking. Sometimes it didn't, that much is true, but the same could be said for the fashionable look. Any of you guys got any thoughts on this?

Also the idea that looks don't matter is damaging for guys who are perfectly capable of improving their looks.

If your fashion style sucks, you should fix it.

If your teeth are yellow and crooked, you should fix them.

If you're receding / balding, you should wet shave what little hair you have left.

You should grow stubble.

If you're overweight/obese, you should hit the gym, even if only for health reasons.

If you're a skinny nerd, you should bulk up on meat and protein shakes and get in shape.

If you wear glasses, you should get contact lenses or laser surgery.

If you're ginger, you can dye your hair.

If you get zits, exfoliate your skin, shower every day and use concealer/foundation in the mean time. Every single man in TV and Hollywood is wearing makeup. Get used to it.

If you get acne, see your doctor about getting accutane style drugs.

If you got hair in gross places, like ears, nose, monobrow, ass, tweeze or wax that shit!

All of the above will boost confidence. Get on it

Also the idea that looks don't matter is damaging for guys who are perfectly capable of improving their looks.

If your fashion style sucks, you should fix it.

If your teeth are yellow and crooked, you should fix them.

If you're receding / balding, you should wet shave what little hair you have left.

You should grow stubble.

If you're overweight/obese, you should hit the gym, even if only for health reasons.

If you're a skinny nerd, you should bulk up on meat and protein shakes and get in shape.

If you wear glasses, you should get contact lenses or laser surgery.

If you're ginger, you can dye your hair.

If you get zits, exfoliate your skin, shower every day and use concealer/foundation in the mean time. Every single man in TV and Hollywood is wearing makeup. Get used to it.

If you get acne, see your doctor about getting accutane style drugs.

If you got hair in gross places, like ears, nose, monobrow, ass, tweeze or wax that shit!

All of the above will boost confidence. Get on it

The ginger thing.... I coached a guy who was self conscious about it and it was a game changer for him. You're right it doesn't matter if you embrace your gingerness. But some girls in the UK don't like gingers unfortunately.

Gingers are not a race wtf

Brandon, OP, dude...

First, we got into a discussion whether your biceps, triceps and forearms are part of your shoulder. Now, you're arguing with HF on hair color and race.

WTF?

I mean, WTF?

The ginger thing.... I coached a guy who was self conscious about it and it was a game changer for him. You're right it doesn't matter if you embrace your gingerness. But some girls in the UK don't like gingers unfortunately.

Gingers are not a race wtf