Hi guys, I've read all Mystery books , seen all PUA videos. But there is not a end game explanation for breaking up. I usually control the frame entirely . But in this particular case I don't know what to do, it seems that I'm screwed up. Here's the case:

I have been dating this girl (8) nice slim body, long legs, busty. For 5 months, after the first month she's making plans to live in another country (I don't care at the moment cause we're not even boyfriends but we already reached intimacy). The thing is that we got too involved and by the 4th month she proposed me to stay or to leave with her . Stay with me implies living with me (which I'm not prepared too).

Now she left 3 days ago, and we ended in the "good" terms that I may go to study a Master degree next to her country and maybe we can get together in a near future (5/6 months ) which I'm sure that she's going to get alone with new friends and maybe a new alpha male with higher value Like I'll with a new girl.

The thing is that now she's texting me , like she's playing me and giving me a bunch of IOD/IOI and freeze outs.

Is going to sound really bad but I care for her. Is not cool that she's playing with that attitude and even with all the comfort we have . And I don't know if I should be like "Being unaffected" and ignore her or keep with her game (like she's controlling the frame) since she's not here anymore anyway. Actually is the first time for me that I end a relation ship in "good" terms.


By the way sorry for my english is not my native language.

For it not being your first language, it's not bad.

She's texting you while she's abroad because she has nothing to do. She's lonely there, for now. When she meets an exciting man, you're out of the picture.

Talk to her if you want, but space it out. Don't do it too often. She isn't your gf and you don't owe her that. Game other chicks. And...when you go visit that country, guess who you get to call and take out for drinks?

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

In my experience with LDRs, if she is going away and there is no DEFINITE plans for the distance to be eliminated, then yeah, she is going to fuck somebody else.

If you knew you were definitely going to be together in a few months, then she is much less likely to. There is still the possibility of a drunken hook up, but she is very likely to want you as a long term prospect.