Used to work with a guy for about a year. I'm 19 and he's 25. Turned out that he somewhat liked me .(For some part of that time he was in a relationship that soon ended) He would compliment me and try to get my attention any time he could. He asked me to go for a drink with him a few times and finally I agreed. After we started texting and hanging out, he said that he feels good with me and all the shit that comes with it. But he had to move to a different city (not too far) to study for about 2 years. Instead of figuring something out he just stopped talking to me. About 3 months later he messaged me and was all sorry for being such a dick. Said that he shouldn't have done that and stuff like that. We started texting again but haven't had a chance to meet. I felt like he didn't have time for me in his life because it seemed that he didn't have time to talk to me, EVER! I tried to fight with him but that didn't work out but after that conversation I stopped texting him and he did the same. After a bit I removed him on facebook and decided to forget. After about a month he texted me saying that he didn't like the way things fell apart between us. He was mad when he saw that I removed him on FB and he said that he tried to forget me but he couldn't. I did tell him that i felt like he doesn't have time for me, he said he gets where I'm coming from but that wasn't the case.(He never really explained what the case was) We are still texting but he is acting the same way as before and I'm getting mad about it. Sooo he says he misses me but his actions show the opposite. The questions are: What is going through his mind??! and What are the results he is wanting to get with actions like that??

Lena don't double thread... but since this section sucks balls anyways and you are a girl I'll let it slide.
I wont defend some stranger on the Internet and what I truly believe actions are more important than words.
If a girl creeps up on me like that multiple times and always shows the same pattern aka let's do that together, goes cold, I tell her off, she creeps on again and so on in repeat.
It suggests that the pattern will continue in the future, girl!
Now go back to your other thread and ignore what I said, reality is not what most people like to be given as advice, go get motivated instead and enjoy life

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He is just an insecure little cunt, who tries validating his ego by trying to make you forgive his lack of balls each and every time. This is a pick-up forum. And by that standard, I can honestly say that you deserve a lot better than this sorry ass of a man.

Here's the thing. He either has no idea what he wants, or he is exceptionally good with manipulating you into believing he doesn't know what he wants. Either way, it's no good for you.

Peace,

In$tinct.

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I agree with the person above.

If I truly liked a lady, I'd always have time for her. If you were a big part of his future, he'd have had some plans before he moved. Even if, he can stay at a nearby friends house on the weekends, so he can be together. If you have the means, there is no reason why he would not have asked if he could come up and stay the weekends with you, sleeping in your bed.

You are the girl, he is the guy. Move one of your LJBF's to number one. Just saying........

I disagree. Find someone who you find attractive, AND has time for you would be better, I think. In other words, find a MAN.

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I disagree with your disseverance. Find a man that sticks around, and isn't a jackass.

Not really that. I think you failed to miss the point, dude. Either that, or you're trying to run some game. ;-|

*cock block*

Well they're in the friendzone for a reason. Those reasons being:

a) Lack of balls.
b) Not her type.
c) Both of the above.

How do you expect a relationship to function on any of these ^ grounds?

There's a difference between being friends with a woman and being in her LJBF or friendzone(which means you'll never ever have a chance)

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He's a player who only messages you to soothe his ego during dry spells.

Block his number and block him on Facebook and get a real man.

He is just an vulnerable little slit, who tries verifying his ego by trying to create you absolve his deficiency of paintballs each and whenever. This is a pick-up community. And by that conventional, I can genuinely say that you are entitled to a lot better than this sorry ass of a man.

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