Well, I am a woman who is looking for advice on how to attract a man. I figured this would be a perfect place, considering it is full of men who want to attract women, and I could get come interesting insight.

I officially met this guy I went to high school with a couple years back the other day (we never really socialized together back then). He had liked my picture on facebook, started a chat with me, and then asked if we could hang out sometime. So I believe there is attraction. We just hung out a few days ago, it was not a date, just to get to know each other. He is the artsy type; he plays guitar/sings/writes. We have some common interests.

He played/sung me a song (he is a confident fellow), and I complimented him on how lovely it was. He told me not to stroke his ego too much, because he was a little bit of an egotist. I also noticed him using one pick up artist body language technique, where you point your body language away from the woman to build attraction and appear aloof. But, I must note he is quite respectful, he held doors open for me, got me ice cream, and upon departing he gave me a hug, said it was a pleasure, and said we should hang out again sometime (he has been busy as of late socially). So, any tips on what how to attract such a guy? Confident, a little bit of an ego, yet respectful, polite, funny, and intelligent.

I already know how to be myself around him; I don't want to come off as if I am a deer in the headlights here. I'm just quite curious, hoping to learn something new. I just want some useful advice from men (possibly men with these qualities or who have friends with these qualities) on how to successfully grasp his attention more than I might have already. Some insight into what this type of man's triggers are. What are some cool techniques to make me irresistible to him; while of course staying true to myself.

Thanks guys

Simple, toss your bra in the trash and ice your nipples.
That should work.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

*cough cough*

I already don't wear a bra. Gosh, you are so assuming.

It seems to me that there is already some attraction in your favor. I'm not the kind of guy that holds doors open for just any girl.

If you are trying to initiate some hot lovin' send him that ''You Busssyyy.....?" text.
Just saying.

Hahaha.
I seem to have severely overestimated the quality of the answers I'd receive here. (I guess maybe there isn't such thing as a classy PUA; at least not here).

I have only met this guy once, that would be coming on way too strong. More importantly, I am not the kind to just be like, "eyyyy lets fuck." I prefer connection to mere physical gratification. I guess I should have been more clear; I want tips on how to better play a game of cat and mouse, not a game of hunt and fuck.

Hm, I find that interesting though. A few men that I am just friends with do me the courtesy of holding the door open for me. Everyone's different, I suppose.

I'd say that if you're more interested in a relationship you should go to the relationship part of the forum
relationships-vf128.html

But my opinion is that if you're interested in him for real then let it take it's time, be slow about it and just don't rush into anything.

-Crowwops

Or continue to underestimate your self-esteem? And that's why your here. I have this rare disorder called self-esteem and the side effects are not giving a fuck.

Look Kitten, your goal is not to look for a man but merely to look for and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. What's stopping you from reaching your goal?

Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what.

Don't blame your small boobs, or bad haircut.

Blame your confidence.
I call bullshit. Sometimes you want to get fucked like a naughty girl. Spanked, hair pulled, even tied up, held down, and told her you've has been a very bad girl.

Don't lie.

You want to think you’re in demand but don’t want to think your just a notch on Price charming's bed post, you want to think your that special snowflake, unique, I get it. Your "Classy"!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Heh...

Mysteriouswoman, I need some advice...

It's been a few years since I last spoke to this girl, we went to school together but the other day she randomly liked my picture, messaged me and asked to meet up. We met up, we had a good time and she let me kiss her on the cheek, give her a hug and made plans to meet again. Do you think this girl likes me at all?

See, ask yourself the same question you're asking us: Is he interested in me? Go through the motions and then relate to it; would you ever do that or know someone to do that who wasn't interested in you?

Although, it might be different if you were actually good friends at one point.

Assume he likes you. Go out, dress well, make a bit of effort, a bit more than usual -- he'll notice. Your job is to try and have him make the first move so you need to HINT that you want him to. Not spell it out but hint. Do the usual stuff like touching him, holding eye contact, getting close to him, stealing(Read: Taking something from him with his knowledge and be teasing about it) something of his(Hat or jacket "It's cold"). When he gets close to you just look him in the eye and that's his cue to kiss you. If he doesn't he's not as confident as he lets himself on to be.

If push comes to shove just state the obvious: "Why did you talk to me after so long?" He's gonna say he thought you were cute or something which is basically saying he wants you. Cute is a good thing!

If you just want to fuck him meet him at a bar, get drunk and start pawing all over him. He won't say no. Simple.

Most men won't go for a woman because they have those mental barriers in place, something a lot of guys are conditioned with. You have to essentially break them down for him by showing interest.

Yes of course I'm not going to rush into anything, like I said before I'm just curious about what you guys think.

I'm not disputing I have self-esteem issues, everyone does to some extent. You guys seem to have all these schemes and methods of hitting on women, I was just curious if anyone knew of tricks for women that I could keep in mind for future reference. Hey, I am not disputing that either. I'm just saying if I don't have genuine feelings for someone, I would probably never get in bed with them. I am highly attracted to the mind, and if someone is lacking up there, well they might as well have a vagina. That's why I left my last mate.

And GamesSN thanks; simple stuff but good advice.