@do8. This community has given me everything I have today. I'm not kidding. Have I not joined, I'd probably be still a virgin. Even though, that was a Hungarian community first, I joiner here much later, I'm more than willing to give back the value I got to anyone who's willing to accept, and I'm trying even to the ones that are not willing, because I used to be one stubborn mother-fucker back in the days too. That's what gives me the patience, nothing else.

If you can't be happy without a woman, you will never be happy when you have a woman.

Dissatisfied single people should actually consider themselves in a neutral, fairly hopeful position, compared to what their situation could be. A single person who would like to find a great relationship is one step away from it, with their to-do list reading,
“1) Find a great relationship.”
People in unhappy relationships, on the other hand, are three leaps away, with a to-do list of
“1) Go through a soul-crushing break-up.
2) Emotionally recover.
3) Find a great relationship.”
Not as bad when you look at it that way, right?

I too call troll.

I had a conversation with my girlfriend today on SPAM and she said that she was going to have a guy round to her house because he was bored and he would sleep in her bed because it was the biggest and the sofa was uncomfortable. He apparently fancied her friend and she told me nothing was going to happen. This was somewhat reconciled when I talked with her and it was decided that she would not do this because the guy went to a party instead. We left on good terms, but I reconsidered afterwards that she would say nothing would happen, then if something did, she would absolve herself of the responsibility. I am considering sending her this message and cancelling a date with her tomorrow, therefore not seeing her.

"I still can't picture the reason why a man would arrange to come to your house and sleep in your bed. I don't understand that one and your explanations that he was bored did not suffice to explain why you would arrange to have him sleep with you. When I said about Tunisian hospitality, that was my genuine attempt to rationalise it. And the sofa was a little uncomfortable. With the best intentions, it can be hard to resist night urges, with a man at your side, and hormones , you know this – don't claim nativity on that. You are going to be mad at me Ons, but you should not be. I did not arrange for any girl to sleep in my bed. It is not normal and I am disappointed in you. Invite a woman into your bed, not a man, that is my place only to sleep beside you, as it is yours to be the only woman that lies with me. No woman sleeps with your man, no man sleeps with my girl."

Can you please advise? I am feeling wounded and I don't know how to make that go away. She is going to send me naked pictures tomorrow, which will make it harder to be mad at her for this lol.

"I still can't picture the reason why a man would arrange to come to your house and sleep in your bed. I don't understand that one and your explanations that he was bored did not suffice to explain why you would arrange to have him sleep with you. When I said about Tunisian hospitality, that was my genuine attempt to rationalise it. And the sofa was a little uncomfortable. With the best intentions, it can be hard to resist night urges, with a man at your side, and hormones , you know this – don't claim nativity on that. You are going to be mad at me Ons, but you should not be. I did not arrange for any girl to sleep in my bed. It is not normal and I am disappointed in you. Invite a woman into your bed, not a man, that is my place only to sleep beside you, as it is yours to be the only woman that lies with me. No woman sleeps with your man, no man sleeps with my girl."