So its 9:30 am my time and I just got home from this house party i was at last night...im running on 2 hours sleep right now, and somehow I gotta be able to watch the superbowl today...anyways so this house party I went to last night was pretty sick...the best party ive ever been to in terms of girls to guys ration (1.5:1)...so I was really to work on my game, and hopefully get a # or k-close...

So heres my report...as I walk into the party I try to DHV myself immeaditely by walking into the party with a few of my buddies and a pair of hotties that one of them brought. I put a solid smile on my face, and made some small talk with some of the guys, but they were all guys I already knew. One thing I shouldve been doing was to have established social proof right away throughout the party by just simply going up and making small talk with random people.

So the first little bit of the party I was just chilling with my buddies, and having a few shots to get a decent buzz going. I really wanted to go open sets but I had my AA kicking in. After abit I decided just to open a 3 set of very mediocre looking (HB4-5's?) girls just to try and get rid of the AA. Im talking to some guys, but over my shoulder to the girls behind me "Did one of you grab my ass?" (In a C+F way, someone actually did touch my ass though so I thought Id give it a shot) They laughed, and denied it. I busted them on being liars. Then one of them mentions how their best friends, so as any aspiring PUA would do I gave them the best friends test (my first time trying the routine). Overall it worked ok for me, I didnt deliver it that great b/c of the drunk ppl around us but I was content with using it as warmup. So after the test I said I had to go see some friends and ejected.

After some more small talk with buddies I head outside with a buddy to grab some drinks from his car, and on our way out there we run into his GF and her friend. Im introduced to the GF and make some good conversation with her, mostly small talk, but I really felt it helped me alot with getting the AA completely out of the way for the night. After that we get back inside and a bunch of ppl are dancing, and my buddy calls me over to double grind this HB9 and eventually its just me and her dancing and were talking abit and I through out "You know, your so adorable...Im gonna adopt you as my little sister and were gonna climb trees, and drink kool aid together" (I got that straight from Cajun who was on Keys to the VIP). She loved this line, and thought it was hilarious. I then eject for a few minutes, then I see the HB9 on this couch so I go up to her and say "give me your hand" and so I pull her up, give her a little twirl and steal her seat. She thought it was funny so I tell her to sit down so we can play a game. I through out the old ESP routine but the HB told me her # both times before I could even guess, although I told her not to tell me, and of course the #'s she said were 3 and 7. So that pretty much ruined the whole game, and then her friend grabs her and drags her away. Oh well.

Next I feel like opening up another HB9 at the party and I decide to go with a neg opener b/c apparently this girl is a huge cocktease. So I open with "Hey, where are all the hotties tonight? I thought this was supposed to be a good party" I pause for a second and she just gave me this "fuck off" look, and then I say "Oh my god, Im just kidding haha". No response from her, she just walked off. However, a few minutes later im back on the dance floor and she comes up to me, and has a few unfriendly words for me, and I kinda just laugh it off. Then she starts to walk away and I grab her and say "Look im sorry if I came off as an asshole earlier, I really just wanted to talk to you b/c I think your a real cutie. Do know what, your adorable and I want to adopt you as my little sister...etc (I went back to the well cuz it worked the first time) and she loved it. I had played this girl perfectly (or so I thought at the time). I eventually get into a one on one with this girl and were just talking about school/ foreign languages/ family, some pretty interesting stuff. The big mistake I made was I dont think was building attraction, I tried for a move to another quieter room but she didnt want to, and then her friend came and took her away.

After that there wasnt much else sarging I really tried for...especially since a couple hours later the HB9 who I opened with the neg came got really hammered and while I was talking to some friends she comes up and starts telling me Im really mean, and said "if your trying to pickup girls you dont tell them their ugly" and I just tried to act calm and pretty much told her she took everything out of context, and I said I was joking. Then one of my friends said something completely innocent to her, and she turns around and scratches the side of his face, and she then gives me a nice little punch in the kisser (wasnt a hard one thankfully). Then for the next 2 hours she was crying in the bathroom and she said to one of her friends "ppl are calling me a slut". To which everyone around was just laughing at her, b/c noone said anything like that.

Anyways, that was pretty much it. Didnt get any closes, a kiss on the cheek here n there but that was it. I still managed to do some good things in my opinion although, getting a nice "POW right in the kisser" kinda soured the night. Oh and it turns out that the HB9 was a real nut job. People who knew who she was were saying that she has some real issues, so that made me feel better in the end. So ya thats my first FR in a long time. If anyone has any thoughts, please chime in.

lol thats some funny a$$ shyt. did you say that with a smile on your face in a playful way? it sounds like you where ejecting to early and you need to find out of a way to stop their friends from taking the target from you. also look for ioi's then move into a3.

Lol ya man, it was a fun night...and yes im pretty sure I said it in a playful way, but some girls when they drink just are messed...ya the lack of a wingman definately hurt me last night. The problem was that all my buddies there have no idea about PU so I wanted to try and look good, so I didnt tell any of em about what I have learned. Regarding the IOI's. I think that was a big fault on me last night, b/c I completely ignored looking out for things like that b/c my mind was focused on so many other things. It's definately something I gotta keep in mind going forward.

Very interesting post, thanks a lot for that.

I just want to insist of a point where I would not have played it this way... I think that if someone decides to neg, he has to be consistent on the neg. You say "Hey, where are all the hotties tonight? I thought this was supposed to be a good party", I like this neg btw. Then you observed that it irritated her. At that point, having an inconsistent game does not deserve you:"Oh my god, Im just kidding haha"... I'd rather pass for an asshole, or a rude guy, than someone who tries to make joke and admit they are not funny. You don't have to justify yourself, specially to the target, do you?... I would have definitely tried the "you don't go out much often, do you?" with a huge smile on my face... Then, depending on her reaction, if you see she is still angry you can try a LIGHT compliment (the most famous is style's one) "but you have a nice smile, I can say you're a good person" but you can work out your own.

Then, I would NOT have said "look am sorry...". I believe you definetly lost her at that point, remember YOU ARE the prize. Did she apology when she had unfriendly words? She had to apology she did not kiss you See the idea?

Finally, I never say to a target she is cute cause I believe it does not make me different from the 30 guys who tried to open her on the same day. I can say however, that she has a nice personality (if she prooves me so) or very seriously while looking at her in the eyes, talking slowly as if I wanted to say something VERY important that "[she] has the most beautiful... earings!" and then touch the back of her ear...

I've never tried the following, I will give it a go someday. After a neg which irritates, if the target comes back and has unfriendly words for you, maybe a simple:"you know what you and I have in common? I guess, you look assertive and unemotional if we judge quickly by not knowing you. However, when we get to know you, we see that this is just a shell to protect from outside and below is a sensitive personality and am the same", smile cause it is a game and see her reaction.