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I see; walking around, even when applying the three-second rule, if you lack confidence, well, is difficult because I'm nervous; if giving off a neutral vibe is being non-nervous, well, I'm not there, am I? I'm less nervous, though, when I'm high energy, though, and comes across better, I've found, but as to it being "neutral," I think it is.
I think my main problem stems from being on a a mission, if anything, and hovering around too much, which can't be helped in a small venue. I mean, when you're applying the three-second rule, but everyone can see you're mvoing from girl-to-girl, well that ain't good. I spent some time just wandering from building to building, for good measure, to keep calm.
Having a mission is good. It keeps you focused. You'll only get calm once you're so used to approaching and talking with hot, beautiful girls.
I started pick up somewhat this way (using many other approaches but this was the most effective for me):
1. I approached and opened all of the sexy and beautiful hired guns I saw. Hired guns work in shops, stores, restaurants, cafeterias, banks, and so on. My goal was to get into conversation with them for at least 10 minutes. A smaller goal was to bait them to touch me by being sexual and playful so I could escalate minus the creepy vibe. I'm +40 and I sarge the 18 to 21 demographic.
2. Once I got into 10 minutes without a glitch or trouble, I went for an instadate at nearby fastfood chains, burger stands or coffee shops. This was the point when other girls saw that sexy and beautiful girls were very comfortable in my presence.
3. Non-hired guns then opened me wondering how come I was always with those sexy and beautiful girls. At the very least, they sent approach invitation cues.
That, my friend, was/is how I got/get laid a lot of times using PUA techniques. I currently have several hot girls that I intentionally friendzoned for the purpose of using them as bait to sarge other hot women.
I don't have wings but I have baits. It works for me. It might work for you.
Bait. "Friendzoned 'em." Your very handle, Hellhound. I'm starting to like your style, as well as your advice.
Why? Because it sounds cruel, and cruelty is erotic, if done well.
So you know, I encountered a hired gun at an info booth, today, had no intention of sarging, but noticed when she she responded well, and conversed a little longer, playfully. Didn't go sexual, or anything, or even stay long, but still, I left her wanting more, and it felt pretty good.
I think I'm starting to get what you said about a "neutral" vibe. Hm...haven't been pointedly trying to engage hired guns more than a few times, or so, but my own experience, and yours, suggests that's higher percentage play.
I think I'll try it.
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