I try to be, I have read this before and I am quite an unpredictable guy. Brave and impulsive don't quite describe me now, I find that I think too much to be impulsive, but at times I am. I don't message her at regular times. It's like this. I love her and she loves me. I am not quite as immature as I have been coming across here, this has essentially been me letting out all the nonsense that I would not allow anyone to see.

I am aware of nick vudic and I think he has a fully working dick No I realise I need a change of mindset. I was a strong person before this happened, the bad luck for me was that I had put a lot of myself into focusing on the power gained through my sexuality, it was my Achilles heal.

Now as for my girlfriend. She is immature, I know this, she is also intelligent and docile and I nearly ripped her apart by not talking to her. I waited for the tears to stop and then there were just confused apologies, and why are you doing this, I will not oblige any man to stay, more tears. She initially did not believe my reasoning and thought it was an excuse for me to leave her. She loves me and I love her.

The issue is me. I am insecure and shy. Can a shy guy be deep and random and mysterious, beta not alpha but different enough to seduce? I constantly neg her, I constantly give her advice about things, tell her she is silly etc.

Now Nick Vudic. I don't believe Nick Vudic's wife would cheat on him. However, I am sure his wife is older and more mature than my current girlfriend.

So what I am saying is why cannot improve my life without leaving this girl? We have plans to travel, why can't she come with me and do all these things?

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Dude the thread has turned into an epic 10-pager and you're still not listening. It's like Paramount all over again. People's patience will only go so far.

You don't want to change, that's fine, but don't waste our time wallowing in your self pity.

You can keep your girl by begging her to stay, emptying your bank account on presents for her, blaming yourself when she cheats again, leaving flowers on her doorstep, buying her a wedding ring and calling / texting her romantic gestures 100 times a day. I'm sure she will love the constant attention.

Thanks for all the advice, I appreciate this and it has helped me. I am more comfortable with myself from hearing these messages. I am also more comfortable with the possibility of breaking up with my girlfriend, which I believe is also important.

So I am still searching for how I am going to improve, how I will get back my motivation, but all this has helped me, thank you. For a lot of this stuff, I am so enclosed I won't mention it.

I am going to stop posting on this tread now, thanks again.

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Trying to improve yourself whilst remaining with her has the subtext of improving yourself in order to keep her surely?

Not necessarily. I have her. I am in no danger of losing her. It was just my paranoia.

I can move on from that. As I said I am usually very confident with her. Is shyness always a problem?

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Well, shyness won't help you for sure. However it wouldn't be such a big deal, if you had other manly qualities, like proper frame control, being able to walk away, and other things which you just lack. Your girlfriend must be the most insecure girl ever thinking she will never ever find someone else besides you if you're 100% positive "you have her".

Or... maybe... can it be, that she's just an immature tool and she's used to getting what she wants every time she lets a few teardrops out? Oh my, what a rare case would this be, we're talking about women, and they are so bad at manipulating men emotionally... /end of sarcasm/

Why do you want to keep this girl? Just why? Give me ONE reason that I can't obliterate in 10 seconds except for "I love her". She cheated on you. Remember? I think I'm going to have to repeat something. What the fuck makes you think she will not cheat again? That she told you? Yeah women are always honest, just believe everything they say and you'll be fine. Or do you not care at all about being cheated? Fine with me, just tell me and I'm out of this thread, because then there's no problem to talk about anymore. Fuck... Hunter_Foxe is right, even my patience is getting to its end.

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Yes. To be honest, I view the problem that she cheated as my problem for being so insecure that I care that she did.

Is there any possibility that my style with her, my philosophy shared, and the fact that we have aligned morals and values, has made me so different that she remains attracted to me? Is there any possibility that my stress at work has led to this bad run of form, because that is what I am now considering. She is a small beautiful girls, and small beautiful girls often have low self esteem. She is also from Tunisia and puts me on a pedestal just for being from the UK. I believe there is some value attached to the fact that I am working with a decent amount of responsibility in the current job market, I've recently been attending a board meeting in London, with the company chairman who owns an aeroplane.

Now, of-course I realise any value here is artificial, not natural, I did not go out and have every hot women in the club begging me for sex. I am focused on generating value so that I can enter politics and show the wealthy their responsibility to those suffering due to being on the deficit left by the surplus they have "earned". So I put any woman below this philosophy, I make that clear (this is irrelevant to whether it is attractive or not).

So I may be completely wrong (sincerely, no sarcasm, I have limited experience and am 22) but I think this has led me to have some value in her eyes, also the extend to which I talk about the importance of energy and seduction in life, that all energy comes from sexuality. I'll stop.

So the biggest problem I identified out of all this was not that my girl cheated, but I put her too highly on my list of priorities. I believe life to be bigger than any one individual. Call me arrogant if you want, but anyone born in the west has the same responsibilities I believe, are they man enough to stand up and shout about it and lead? London riots?! London is the heart of unnatural darkness.

I say this too, anyone whose lives have been immeasurably enhanced by becoming a PUA, given that Rockstar motivation, the ability to shoot off in life like a firework, MrFahrenheit as Freddy would say, you all know the energy and drive it's given you and you all know how valuable that is. Just to have got there, you guys are one in a thousand. You have a responsibility to channel that energy back to lead, your sexuality stoked the alpha male's flame, stop coasting, stop surfing, stop hacking, start giving back because this world is fucked, it is unnatural in these jobs that saps lives, this society that saps lives, there are people around the world, living their lives in suffering and pain, there is sickness and there are 85 people who control as much wealth as half the world's population.

Now you're all going to be fucked off with me and I couldn't give a fuck, because I'm fucked with myself for not shaping up. So peace and love to you all, this thread is done.

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You said your gf's convo is in bold. This is how a masculine female talks.
You on the other hand are more melodramatic and hysterical than a woman based on your posts in this thread. Damn, you're even prone to text nagging.

Masculine women are attracted to submissive, feminine men.

Despite all of the great insights and advices given in your thread we can really do nothing if you want to keep the status quo. It's your life. If you're addicted to this emotional roller coaster ride that you're having with your gf, then so be it.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

My girlfriend is quiet and shy. But she is sexy and independent. Fuck man, this is doing more harm than good.

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Oh, God. Is there nothing that can convince you? Really...

Look, it's good that you want to feel the pain of the entire world, and do something about it. But how does that exactly relate to this relationship? Dude, if you manage to wreck this zionist Rockefeller/Rotschild kartell I will bow to you. I will say your name in my prayers eventhough I'm an atheist, and I will initiate a poll to build a statue for you, but how the fuck does this relate to your relationship?
What does it matter? How long of a list should we make before you understand this very simple principle:

She cheated once, you let her get away with it, as a result, she will cheat more. Maybe not now, maybe not next month, but she will. I guarantee it.
Puts you on a pedestal? Really? In the beginning of the thread you mentioned you were highly intelligent. I'm starting to doubt this because you seem to be missing basic logic here. Let me show you.

Puts you on a pedestal vs she cheated on you.

Common sense says only one of the above can be true. We know for a fact that the second one is true, therefore the first statement is automatically false.

There is a big difference between loving someone, and putting someone on a pedestal. She MIGHT love you. She is NOT putting you on a pedestal. And she WILL cheat on you again.

Good luck and peace,

In$tinct.

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somebody please give me some popcorn, nice drama here

seriously instinct, how on earth can anybody on earth have so much patience like you and some others do? I mean i do read and think about updates here, i don't get mad or anything, but typing that long responses would be a challenge for me while this thing is not going to work anyway

cheers everybody

Hilarious. I'm going to try to keep learning. The problem is I was there. PUA made me realise all the attractive qualities I actually had. My injury fucked that natural alpha vib up.

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Dude if you truly were alpha before your accident, you still would be now. Stop blaming your accident and take responsibility.

Long term relationship from the UK to Tunisia was never gonna work. You're very naïve to believe it would.

How often have you seen her in the past 2 years?

Holy.

M. O. T. H. E. R.

(fucker).

One of my FWBs has a husband who works in Saudi Arabia. I'm from Asia. Another FWB has a boyfriend who lives in another town 30 minutes away. I sarge those girls a mere 5 minutes away from where I live.

What were you thinking OP, hmm? Your long distance girlfriend is capable of immaculate conception? Let me guess... You're sending money to this girlfriend of yours...

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Can't believe this thread is still going on... 11 pages. Come on guys!