long story short. got oneitis last year with ex gf and screwed up relationship, took ages to recover. started reading about game, only starting to use it now.

anyway, for some reason i'm too nice to nice chicks (can't do cocky funny) but can easily flirt with chicks that are slutty or not my type. I just started back at uni and started talking to HB6 possibly a 7, shes really nice and friendly and i cant bring myself to neg or act myself around her, i'm hoping oneitis isn't starting again. any tips on what i should do?

I think i should try to get to know other chicks in my other classes (my m8 thats a player (hes natural) thinks i that im not the player type of guy) and try date a few to keep oneitis from happening.

Im studying psychology and am a personal trainer. i usually just tell chicks that i am a pt but maybe i should use a dhv story to get them to ask about it.

any suggestions would be awesome, don't want to get oneitis again or friendzoned.

I'm reading magic bullets SPAM and have watched mystery method, david D, RSD stuff. I think watching all this stuff has made me worse as i second guess everything i do now.