Hey guys,
I met this girl half a year ago at some party of a friend of mind. Some bla blubb and chatting. Facebook close and not too much going on. Afterwards we went out cocktail drinking with some friend for like 3 times. We had fun and a cool time together and I met also some friends of hers. Now I am living like one hour away from her in a different city so dating is best on the weekends and such a relationship would be cool for me.
First date she mentioned was in the middle of December. We wanted to go on the Christmas market together on friday, however she brought another friend of her along. So no dating :/ and no KC. On Sunday she texts me if I wanna come over for a cup of coffee. Didn’t had any time though.
2 weeks ago we had our first official date together. Only 2 cocktails each but a fun time nonetheless. Not too much Kino from my side so no KC. Last week on valantines day I get some message from her with some wishes for valentines day (=clear IOI). On Saturday I asked her out to some other bar again and we went to a concert of band of another friend of mine. I brought her along and we had a fun time. I followed the escalation ladder: Fun+Kino=Makeout. No big deal.
Afterwards I come up to her apartment. Since I am kind tired (I was a good PU guy and went out the last 3 nights
). And I am physically not able to fuck her during the night … licking, fingering and all good but no fucking :/. Too much alcohol and lack of sleep to get me aroused though. Wasn’t so much that I was not able to communicate and I would definitely still make out with here soberly. We slept naked together. FC in the morning was possible though. We chatted afterwards about stuff and KC here and there. I said goodbye and that well meet again.
Now I won’t be able to see her again in the next 3 weeks, more likely 4. She is writing her exams now. However I want to see her again. Should I phone her once or twice to wish her good luck for the exams for some comfort? Cuz we didn’t communicate afterwards and I don’t want her to give her the impression I don’t like her and her body cuz I wasn’t capable of fucking her.
I mean she likes me (IOIs and stuff since more than 2 month before the dating). So for me and her it was more than a SNL. However I know some girls are a little bit insecure after the FC and stuff. What would you advice me? I definitely want to see her again! How would you rate the current situation?
Thanks for your opinion,
Hejsan
CHAT