I've been in the game for about for about a year and yeah I have learn something's and I.'ve completely losing my approach anxiety but I can't seem to get a date. I can get their number but that about as far as I get. I'll invite them to do something but I always get an excuse why they can't. I'll 3 Times with every girl before I get the message that she's not interested and stop. I'm wondering if anyone else had this issue and how did you fix it because this is really hitting my ego/confidences. I've tried going after less attractive girl only for the same results. . . nothing. so anyone want to,help out a AFC?

u totally fucked up dude... try to be good at your conversation w them.

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I got rejected so many times the first time I implemented what I've learned in this forum. I've stopped counting at #10 and really can't remember how many but it's definitely waaaay a lot more than 10. What I've learned from all of those rejections and adapting to every situation are these:

1. Break down your goals into very small sub-goals.

1.1 Goal 1 - Stare down a girl whom you catch stealing glances at you.
1.2 Goal 2 - Say opener.
1.3 Goal 3 - Eye fuck the girl.
1.4 Goal 4- Touch her hand.
1.5 Goal 5 - Have fun

2. When you're at the early stages, always visualize your penis in her vagina (the main goal).

3. Have fun. Enjoy the moment. Do NOT visualize any form of rejection.

4. If you get rejected or get jealous, look up and then count 100 imaginary sheeps jumping a fence or until you get your fun frame back.

5. Keep things light and fun.

6. Fun. Fun. Fun. NOT funny BUT fun. If you're funny all the time, girls won't be that horny. But when you're fun (playful and unpredictable) most of the time, girls get horny most of the time. I think it's because you allow girls not to feel any pressure in your presence by having a devil may care and non-judgmental vibe.

Once I've had mastered all of the above, it's girls who now ask me for a date. Of course, it's not a 100% success rate. There will still be rejections but you'll be surprised that a girl who rejected you one week ago will want to ride your cock right now when the timing or your vibe is right.

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what do you do, what's your routine? and also what books are your techniques based on or it's your own stuff?

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One of the core problems with pickup is that you always have an agenda (you want to get laid), which will spoil your chances. The more skillful you get, the better you become at hiding this agenda. But you will only become a true "master" (whatever that is) the day you stop picking up girls, having no agenda at all, and go out for other reasons - to have FUN. (But you still have to be open and social, otherwise you will not meet new people). Focus on being fun, unpredictable and having interesting conversations with girls.

If you don't have fun, they don't either, and if they don't they don't enjoy beeing with you --> they don't want to meet you again

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Yeah agree with some of the guys here....in my experience...women

can already feel the vibes coming off a man before anything...if she senses

you are nervous and a bit shy and don't know what to do...



Often times chicks don't give you any play. Just simply ask her to hang out..

and when you do...I would IMMEDIATELY drop EVERYTHING on "the game"

do not use any material and just have a regular conversation with her...



But in my experience as well..the game often times only works up to A certain

point for me...I only use it to for the opener and some routines for comfort building

after that I really dont even bother with it anymore.

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I don't really have a routine because in my experience they only go so far and then i'm stumped on what to do next. What i do is say an ice breaker like "hey i like your top its cute" or "smile its a nice sunny day out, got a cold breeze going through" - (i live in FL so this is typical weather). introduce myself ask them for their name then just talk about them.

I think my problem is what someone on this post said already . I don't put any pressure on them, but i dont really know how to do this.

When I get a number I make sure that she knows my intention is to contact her in order to make plans to meet later. What does she think when she gives you her number?

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Your problem is not rejection itself but how you frame it. You have this false impression that master PUAs hardly ever get rejected. But the point is, there is no such thing rejection. One time in London I got rejected by a girl at the beginning of the night, then re-connected with her later in the night and fucked her. I even used her rejection as ammunition to re-open her. Was this a rejection or a success? The rejection was real, she gave me all the attitude, turned her back all like "whatever". But we still ended up fucking.

I constantly get "rejected" even now. Not as much as I used to, but I still get rejected. Define "rejection". I've got a girl home and sitting on my bed but she's giving me LMR and won't fuck me. Is that a rejection? I could start a conversation with a girl and it's going great, but it's 10pm, she's not going to fuck me there and then. She wants to fully experience the night. We end the conversation on good terms and for whatever reason we don't swap numbers, because we figure "oh we'll catch up later in the night when she is more DTF and her buying temperature is higher". But then I find a hotter girl and decide to try fucking her instead. With your "rejection mindset" Girl.1 rejected me. Didn't get her number, didn't kiss, didn't fuck.

Stop viewing pickup in terms of success or rejection. Embrace rejection. Laugh at it. If you're embarrassed by a rejection, make it MORE embarrassing for the girl. Don't save face. Embrace rejection. When people see you smiling all night getting rejected, not giving a shit, they will see a happy-go-lucky strength in you that few people have.

Also stop viewing getting a girl's number as a success.

Realise that:

1) girls give fake numbers sometimes
2) girls may give you their number (real or fake) to get rid of you
3) girls can change their mind on Day 2
4) you cannot have sex with a phone number

Success is your dick thrusting in and out of a hot wet pussy.

Hi
I suggest that you first fix your belief by starting to believe that you're an extremely attractive and sexually free man who helps women unleash their wild side and reach their sexual freedom.

Once you accept your new belief, you'll automatically become much more confident around women.

After you gain confidence with women, you'll have to learn some key dating strategies and dating logistics that will help you smoothly get her out on a date with you.

Since there're 3-4 different areas that you should learn and I don't have enough space to write about them in here, I suggest that you check out my blog pages about these topics at:

http://www.pickupflow.com/confidence-with-women.html (watch out for the first chapter about getting a new belief)

http://www.pickupflow.com/lmr.html (watch out for the chapter about dating strategies and dating logistics when asking her out)

http://www.pickupflow.com/text-game.html

Hope this helps.

Bruno

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Depends on the situation. For example, street pickup has the most rejection because the targets aren't in the frame of mind to be picked up. That same night you can have 80% success at a club. They can't get enough of you.
But being a PUA isn't about minimizing rejection; it's about maximizing your success. It's about not letting rejection affect you so much that your performance suffers on your next encounter. focus on that.

Look, everyone here can give you the advice that comes off the top of their head but really no one is going to know enough from just this (^) how to help you. What you really need is a wingman/coach, someone you can either look over field reports with or go out sarging with. You may not be even making the same mistakes each time, I find that I have a different game at parties than I do in bars, and so I have different "issues" in each environment.

If you can't find a wingman then start nit-picking and getting critical. 60% of every encounter is on the girl, only 40% is on you, but that doesn't mean not to sweat the small stuff.

Personally, I don't get rejected…I always pull out long before that happens.