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PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2014 8:37 pm 
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There was a girl who guessed something about me right. Then she said "see? I am good at reading people"
I felt like she was trying to seek my validation. But I didn't want to give her compliments because I didnt want to become a "nice guy"

I came up with this afterwards. is it good?
"See? I am good at reading people"
"I like you. You are intelligent. I will give you 2 points for that. 8 more to go before I ask for your number"

is that lame? How do you validate a girl that seems to want your validation? or you dont?
FYI she was not very hot, probably a 6.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2014 8:46 pm 
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"Good. You get 3 points for your sense of humor and 3 for your (whatever). At fifteen points, you win my number. So tell me, what are three things any guy would love about you, besides your looks."


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2014 9:06 pm 
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The comment itself is not that lame, but it will be if you use it. And the only reason is that it will be canned, and not something improvised and natural. What you should focus on is not a specific reply, but an attitude. Your "job" as a man is to give the girl validation, but don't do it for your own winning (don't try to get her laid), only do it to make her feel good about herself.

I would have said something like this:

"See? I am good at reading people"
"Well, that could be pure luck. If you can guess right more times, maybe I will be impressed for real."

And she starts trying... And the more she tries, the more she invests, and you will soon have her around your little finger. If she is indeed good at reading people, you can say "wow, you are good" and start validating her by telling other people "this girl is amazing at reading people". But you don't have to do more than that. Change the subject and continue the conversation.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2014 9:31 pm 
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If she screeched or squealed, it's good. If she giggled and tapped your arm, that's your cue to escalate your kino. If she smiled, it's okay. If she frowned, it's not good.

The best way to react to a girl wanting validation is to leave her hanging in suspense for a minute or two. You look at her eye, smile a naughty smile, eye fuck the shit out of her, touch her face and then if she's a 7 or lower, give her the compliment.

If she's an 8 or 9, it's best to just leave her hanging and wondering what your answer is. Let her rub her nipples against your arm until you feel her skin getting hot. Do not give in. Do not answer. Let her escalate on you.

When her skin feels hot enough, isolate. Something like, "Let's grab some coffee and cakes."

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The best way to react to a girl wanting validation is to leave her hanging in suspense for a minute or two.

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Let her rub her nipples against your arm until you feel her skin getting hot.
Can you elaborate on each of those two things?


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2014 5:20 am 
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The best way to react to a girl wanting validation is to leave her hanging in suspense for a minute or two.

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Let her rub her nipples against your arm until you feel her skin getting hot.
Can you elaborate on each of those two things?
# 1

Girl: Am I fat?
PUA: [Gives her a naughty smile. Eye fucks the shit out of her. Looks at her from all angles. Turns her around. Rubs chin as if in thinking mode.]
Girl: What?
PUA: Hmmm...
Girl: What?
PUA: [Places hand on her tummy just above her pussy area. Rubs it a little. Pinches the sides of her belly. Turns her around again. Smacks her butt. Caresses her cheekbones.]
Girl: What?
PUA: For me, you're sexy. You make my dick hard.
Girl: [Screeches or squeals.]

Girl: See? I'm good at reading people!
PUA: [Looks at her with a puzzled look as if she's retarded.]
Girl: What?
PUA: Hmmm... [Rubs chin as if in thinking mode. Eye fucks the shit out her]
Girl: What?
PUA: Let me see...
Girl: What?
PUA: No, you're not. You can't even read what I'm thinking right now. Guess, what I'm thinking right now?
Girl: I dunno.
PUA: You're GREAT at reading people!
Girl: [Pinches your belly or play punches your arm.]

# 2

Hot girls always seek validation. They dress sexy. Put on make up. Talk loudly. Bend over a lot to showcase their ass and so on and so forth. When you're not giving a hot girl the validation she needs, she will most likely do the following things:

1. Bends in front of you so you can take a look at her nipples. You should ignore.

2. Gets closer and sticks her breast at your elbow. She'll covertly rub her nipples at your arm to see if you'll be rattled.

3. Gets mad and creates a scene. This is very rare. 1 and 2 are more common.

Focus on the nonverbals. The eye fuck should be standard operating procedure in addition to the other nonverbals described in the scenarios above.

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