I'm a disgrace!

Sober. Went out, had a bunch of approach invitations from hot women and to close them but I utterly failed. Beautiful women all night long hitting on me but I failed to escalate.

I approached but only approached women that I didn't have much interest in. This is killing my confidence. I get so far and do so well, have HB8s and 9s eye fucking me all night but I fail. I need some kick in the ass to get to it. I don't know if the ups and downs are due to me going in and out of being on the field or if I actually want a girlfriend. All I know is when a HB9 eye fucks me ten times over and I fail to approach it is killing my confidence and my game. I'm stuck in a rut and it happens too often for comfort. Too many ups and downs.

Any ass kicking advice on what the fuck I should be doing? Grab my balls and just go for it? Take charge and take it...? It's killing me!

I need a lot of help on this. Even if it's just to say "Don't be a pussy, just kiss a woman. She wants your dick. All you need to do is oblige her and put it in her mouth." I just need something here... I can't keep having ups and downs like this.

Your testosterone is not that high. Pump it up some more. Here:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cZnsLVArIt8[/youtube]

Disclaimer: All PUA information provided by HH is of a general nature and is furnished for educational/entertainment purposes only. No information is to be taken as medical or health advice.

Do not perform HIIT exercises if you have any serious medical condition. If you have dropped a dumbbell or kettlebell on your penis, do not do any HIIT. If you suffer from epileptic seizures every time you see a girl's wiggling ass, do not do any HIIT.

You agree that use of this information is at your own risk and hold HH free from any and all losses, liabilities, injuries or damages resulting from any and all claims.

_________________
Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

I usually pass through this from time to time and it's completely normal. We all have bad days. If you feel that you're on a constant pace of failure, then start changing that from now before it's too late and it starts to consume you.

I tell you what, if you never do it, you're going to keep regretting it at the end of each night. You will feel miserable when you sleep and you definitely do not want that my friend. Plus, think of it this way, if you never do it you will keep wondering what could've happened if you did. Build on a great future so that you can say that you've had one fucking amazing life you little dick. Just had to let it out, no apologies. Next time you see a girl, approach her, approach before 3 seconds, use a fucking 2-seconds rule and don't think about what's going to happen. Talk about whatever you see to open her, or better yet, just fucking go in and say hi, I'm "x" and she'll introduce herself. Go in, have no regrets, you only live once and the minutes you're spending in regret are a waste of life-minutes. You want to make your life count? Approach without even knowing what to say and see what happens.

Peace

Action precedes motivation.
If you wait until you are motivated and want to do something, you will accomplish half of what you could have accomplished.
For example, sometimes you're just too tired to hit the gym. That's no excuse. Just follow the motions. Drive there, get out of the car, start warming up. Just being there and doing it will change your brain chemistry and you will be throwing iron through walls in no time.
So, these girls have done nothing to merit you liking them. They are just hot. That's it. I know, I feel the same way; I'm not really interested. But you have to just go through the motions and your motivation will catch up. You've done it so many times before that it's easy. It's boring. But you have to do it because it's the first step; it's your responsibility. If you don't do it, those girls are missing out on you. Don't fail them.

Thanks for all the replies.

I bounced back last night. I opened a few sets, had a lot of interest and invitations, etc. I'm very picky but I didn't let that get in the way last night. Met a few women from different countries and shit. I just hope I don't fall back into the same damn pit.

I'm glad this one only lasted a weekend where the other extreme has been a month or more! I have to work on this.