I've known this girl for a while and from the first day she knew that I would sleep with her and not just be friends. We've flirted on and off. On Thursday we went out to celebrate my early birthday with a bunch of friends. We all had a few drinks and she started dancing with me. I would then escalate by biting on her neck, kissing it, etc. Each time I would do it, she would say stop don't do that and return the favor. She would also grab my dick through my pants. Throughout the night it would be the same, she would say "we should stop, we're friends" but then we made out. At the hotel, it was suppose to be my friend, his girl and her with me but unfortunately some other girl came there too. It made getting laid a bit harder for me but I kept on flirting with her, kissing her neck, grabbing her ass, etc. She would always bring that "we're friends thing" but she's interested. She says she doesn't want to complicate things, she says " you just want to get laid" I was like no! I'm just having fun. She then says I might consider it if you show me your dick so I whip it out, lol. I was really drunk. Then she says "I can't believe you did that, I don't like it, it's not hard" Another shit test so I say, that is your job, mine was to take it out. Anyways, I think I was a bit aggressive with her because after some more groping, she said I have to go, bla bla and she left. Sorry for the long story but wanted to tell you as much as possible. How can I plow through that stupid friends crap and just bang her? I know she's into me but doesn't want to mess up the situation. Thanks.

Sounds to me like she is missing the emotional connection. She thinks you just wanna fuck her once, and then leave her in the dirt. When she saw your limp dick, she probably thought you were not that horny about her anyway. She is convinced that you are just not that into her. When you said it was her job to get it up, she interpreted the following: "yeah, just act like a prostitute, touching, sucking whatever, and maybe then I will get excited, because I'm definitely not get excited just being around you dancing and chatting". I know this sounds overreacted, but girls are more sensitive then guys on this subject.

I think you need to tune down your alpha and PUA style and show your soft side. Tell her you are sorry you were fooling around so much, and that you feel things for her that go deeper than dancing and fooling around. Tell her you have romantic fantasies about you and her just sitting on a quiet beach looking at the stars drinking wine... and just saying nothing to each other because you feel so comfortable and good together.

I used to think this was crap too, but try it and try to believe in it. And girls will not give you these kinds of shit tests. I promise you that.

This girl probably got hurt before and is just testing you. But be honest and be yourself. If she's into love and not into seduction, maybe you have to say no if you just want to F her.

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I think Hotu hit the nail on the head in the first sentence, she wants a deeper connection (sex pun). The simplest way in my opinion is to get her talking about herself to you, her hopes/dreams etc; but you have to genuinely be interested in what she has to say, none of this "yeah", "yeah", "that's cool", "sound interesting", ask her to tell you more about what she talking about, for example "that's awesome you want to be a singer! When did you start getting interested in music?" obviously tailor the words to the conversation but you see what I mean, you are indicating you've listened to her and are now showing a voluntary attempt to learn more about her, also the more she tells you about herself, the more comfortable she'll feel with you and the more connected she'll feel towards you because she's investing her inner thoughts with you.

Skip to about 7:30 in this video Click Me the comedian is talking about his daughter saying "Why?" to every answer he gives after she asks him why it's raining, obviously it's not something to follow literally but it is funny how quickly he starts talking about his childhood and stuff, as well as just being funny haha.

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I agree with the two posters above me.

Lacking of qualification and genuinely showing that you like her not because you want to get laid, but to connect with her on a deeper level.

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