I can relate to you. Was a natural, though i never had a gf before(biggest mistake). But about two years ago, this one girl came . At first, I was not even interested in her. And I missed all the IOIs she was giving. Unknowingly started freezing her out. For far too long. Now I gotta get her back. The only problem is how.

Plus she became interested in my roommate(alpha male, kind of a jock), who had just broken up his 4-year relationship. He had a crush on her for a while... though he never had a go at her(maybe cuz of me)... Dunno what to do... :/