Loyalty and other moral codes that you follow to a fault and how it affects your relationships what do you guys think about this topic.

For me loyalty is a very big thing and quite honestly I think was raised to have the morals of a 60 year old man on how a couple should treat each other in a relationship.

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It's old as time: a dog is a man's best friend.

But if the dog owner does not feed his dog for a year, doesn't shower him, doesn't pet him and kicks the dog whenever the owner sees him, that dog is more likely to be loyal to the next door neighbor who feeds, him, showers him, pets him and plays frisbee with him.

A good PUA who is into LTRs (multiple long term sexual relationships or whatever) takes care of his relationships like a plant. He waters the plant just enough for it to grow. Makes sure it gets the right sunshine and proper amounts of fertilizer. Weeds out the grasses that may affect the growth of the plant. If you don't care for the plant, it dies.

Those being said, this is my current moral code when it comes to relationships:

1. Give women at least 6 consecutive orgasms every time. If you fulfill your end of the bargain, you'll get your hot meals regularly when you come home tired from work.

2. Encourage women's nurturing instincts. You can't be alpha all the time especially in female gender roles like doing the laundry, cleaning house or cooking. It's great to have cooking skills but when a woman wants to cook for you, let her. In the same light, if she's in any danger from all of that hysteria over a mice, then by all means do your job as a man and stomp on that rodent. Don't give us the fucking excuse that it's cute and that you're a hardcore animal rights activist. Just stomp on the mother fucking mice.

3. Give women the excitement and emotional roller coaster ride they crave. Give them the drama they want but do not let them give you drama which you don't want. A man's second biggest crime in a relationship is failing to stimulate a woman's emotions. Of course, the biggest crime is failing to bang a woman's pussy real GOOD.

Remember: The best way to a man's heart is through his stomach while the best way to a woman's heart is through her pussy.

It sounds funny and weird but that's the moral truth in human male-female relationships minus the social norms on political correctness.

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Loyalty is important to men, but to women it's not as important to them. Confidence is higher on a woman's list of traits she looks for in a guy than loyalty.

Absurd statement.

I've had a HB-8 GF for about a year now. Picked her up using all my Mystery Method skills I practiced on many many girls We've had our ups and downs, I've made mistakes, a lot which I have learned how to keep a girl interested and have her love you more and more. Some of the things I do seem like the wrong thing to do as time passes because you just want to make her happy, but by giving her what she wants all the time, you'll just lower your value in her eyes.

Some guidelines (some might seem morally wrong, but they work for me)

#1- Stay sexy. If you're a guy that took care of himself before you met the girl, and you used to work out. Stay that way!! Don't fall into a bullshit mind frame. She'll say things like ''baby, I'd love you even if you got chubby''. Most likely she will always love you, but the fact that you are changing who you are originally will little by little turn her off. This is when being aggressive comes in, ''baby stay with me, don't go to the gym'', best answer : ''babe I love you, I'm going to get sexy for you:)''.

#2-Don't take her so serious ! Girls say and do things to push your buttons. Any time you become sensitive over something she said you show weakness, when you show weakness her feminine powers have taken over your masculinity, she's in control you lose. I personally turn any thing dumb she says into a joke and I flip it on her.

#3- Never stop being playful or negging her !!! I make fun of my girlfriend more every day. I point out every time her nose wiggles, I tell her ridiculous shit like ''baby I don't want to have sex, I just want you to sit on my face''....or ''baby, you have eye crusties, let me eat one'', this sort of gross humor gets her cracking up, I always have my gf laughing.

#4- Always be in control. Ask her to do things for you, a lot of things. Ask her to buy you things. Let her invest (contrary to how you feel cause you just want to give her the world don't ya), she'll grow more attached this way. Don't let her think or make too many decisions, women hate making decisions that involve too much thinking, so think for her, even if you're wrong. Don't ask her where she wants to go, just take her. This doesn't mean not to value her opinion. Be open to her thoughts, but you have the final word on what ends up happening. TURN ON!

#5- Orgasms! Make sure she has orgasms once in a while, she'll be making you food or buying you stuff later on Doesn't have to be all the time, but 90% of the time make sure she cums. Eat her out, make love to her, but fuck her brains out sometimes. Best rule of thumb, come after she does, that's being a real gentleman...she can open her own car door.

#6- Take her out to eat when she deserves it and least expects it ! My girl friend asked me the other morning ''babe, would you like me to make you some breakfast'', just because of her asking I invited her out for a breakfast to a nice little restaurant. Unexpected gifts at unexpected times

#7- Stay attractive to other women as well, and make sure she knows that if she leaves you for too long another equally hot woman will easily take her spot. Talk to other women (don't cheat), but just texting other women (without her knowing, get a secret app or something) and practicing your text game and having other women give you IOI's will drastically change your vibe in the relationship. When you revolve your ENTIRE world around her.

#8- Let her know that she's the only woman in your life and that she's your priority and that no other woman matters. Even though you text other women she can't ever find out (referring to rule 7). Make sure she feels SECURE with you. Trust!!! Put your girlfriend over your mother and sister. Trust will allow her to open up to you and tell you everything and anything you want to know about her with time. You can even find out if she's into women at all (most women are), if she is and trusts you enough she'll even bring another girl for a 3 some to make you happy.

#9-Don't be her dad. Be her boyfriend. Don't make her feel bad for telling you something about her ever. If she smokes and you don't like it, don't get on her ass about it. If she's going to get a tattoo, help her choose one don't go against things she wants. Don't be a parent, be a friend.

#10-Don't be afraid to piss her off, know when to tell her to STFU, and don't walk on egg shells while speaking to her. Be blunt, be unapologetic, say all the wrong things, tell her that her breath stinks and then make out with her anyway. Push-Pull eventually it becomes a habit and you do it all the time naturally. I find any way to make fun of my gf all day long, but always playing around and make sure to tell her that she's beautiful and let her know she's your queen and you only have eyes for her.

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@n2thevoid - I think you misunderstood. Loyalty is still important to women but it's not as high on the list of priorities as it is for men.

The man who fucks lots of different women is considered the most sexually desirable to women. The woman who fucks lots of men is not considered more desirable to men.

Women want honesty in a relationship. It's often the lying which hurts them more than the actual act of you fucking other women.

Bad call here. A few more instances like this and the girl will resent it. Never stop women from being generous with you. You'll make them happier if you let women pamper you especially when they're volunteering to do a nice thing for you.

You're basically sending the subconscious signal here that, "No, you can't offer me any good thing. I can offer you the best things."

When a woman feels that she can't offer you anything except her pussy, her resentment will boil into a pressure cooker relationship bomb down the line. She has to feel human, appreciated, and contributing something to the relationship; not just her pussy.

If she's an accountant, ask her to help you out with the spreadsheet or ask her advice which type of bank loan is the better option. When she volunteers to do your P&L, by all means let her. When she volunteers to iron your business suit, by all means let her. Don't say stupid things like, "You're doing it all wrong. My mother does it better. Here, let me show you how..."

Again, women are not sex objects. They're human. They can offer more besides their pussies. They're intelligent. They have skill sets. They have money. They're industrious.

So tap their intelligence, take their money, and appreciate their efforts when they do nice things for you.

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Hellhound's post is spot on, very good points.