I realized its okay to be jealous, we all feel that way sometimes but its how you react to it. Instead of coming across as needy and suspicious, I told her that it makes me feel uncomfortable but I trust that she wont do anything. Plus I have been showing her less attention and have been putting my focus on other girls, and she has definitely been noticing. And I will continue do so until she gets fed up and knows and respects how I feel

And if she does cheat on me, ill have a back up plan. And will realize that she isnt worth my time anyway.

I know how hard it will be to do this to a girl you feel you're in love with, but freeze her out. If it's meant to be she'll come back. You're not acting like the prize, as cliche as it is.

I had a similar situation, but I at the time was needy dweeb. Called her out on it, quite calmly, asked her why she was doing these things, she cried, I cried & we split up, only to be on/off for the next few months.

Spoke to her recently and her and the guy are now best friends. I imagine when he leaves his girlfriend, they'll get together. But whatever, I'm prestige now.

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Thanks slick, I am in a pretty similar situation from what you said. I've been on and off with her to because of jealousy issues (I'm always the one initiating break up with her, and deciding to get back together). But she's always getting hit on, and when they are good looking, she flirts back without even knowing it. And all she can say is sorry. And I know the only way is to make her jealous to but I don't wanna always have to make her jealous. I want loyalty and to settle down... Sometimes i feel like I jst don't have the physical looks that she is really attracted to:(

I go out a lot and have enough women to pick from, but I only have interest on my GF. And she seems interested in pretty much everyone