Hello guys,

this is my first post in this forum as I haven't really had any reasons to write before. I'm a guy in his early 30s, always had good luck with the ladies. Never really been much into PUA but interested and used a couple of tricks here and there when needed sorta.

Ok so now I met this lady. She's about my age, actually a few years older. Just about the hottest lady I have ever met. Good looking but the personality is even better. Funny as hell, talks to anybody about anything, art, sex, personal failures, you name it. Freaked me out at first then I was hooked. We flirted a bit, back and forth. Impossible to just win her over, I've seen guys try but it doesn't work. She just gets into this super friendly mode and leaves. So i played her coool. We started getting closer. And all of a sudden I had her at my place. I didn't do much at all, she just followed ... No sex that night, we were too drunk, but the making out was awesome.

And heres what happened next. We start texting each other. Like mad. I was pretty open with my cards. She reprociated. Apart from just texting just about the wittiest messages about her days in general she said she's been crazy about me for some time. Said she couldn't concentrate at work. Said she thought of sex with me constantly. We decided to possibly meet this weekend. The texting was insane. She just fed me with compliments like no other woman before. I was the sexiest, best looking etc etc.

And yeah. Somewhere a long I started to pull back. Not even sure why. If I got slightly scared of what I gotten myself into. Or if my ego was getting to big. Anyway. My replies got shorter. One sentence kind of shit. But then a little love and flirt of course. I never grew entirely cold. But this was the last to happen: She said she was feeling strange, and wasn't sure if it was from being sick or thinking too much of me. I reply: "Poor you. I hope you get better soon."

And guess what. She's gone. Just like that. Not one more message after that (which was last tuesday). I texted her friday (the weekend we were gonna meet): "So what's your plans for tonight missy?" No reply. I know guys are gonna tell me to chill, but listen, we'd been texting hundreds of text a days. (where she did 70% of the work). She used to be a crazy serial texter, posting me multiple posts without me answering. She just didn't seem to care much about just exactly how on she was, never played cold, bothered to wait for me, or prolong the chatting beause I did so.

I don't know what to make of this. What the hell did just happen? And more importantly: is there any chance of repairing it?

There's one of the culprit.
There's the final killing blow.

Stay NC for a month. If she doesn't call or text back within the next 2 weeks, move on. In the meantime, sarge 100 other girls.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

There's one of the culprit.

Yeah. I know this was a mistake. Tbh I had no chance of doing it that night. Too drunk. Would have been the worst lover ever.

There's the final killing blow.

So I should just have quit texting? She was the one texting most, initiating every time. I figured I had to answer some of for bridging time-purposes and not seem too cold in general.

Stay NC for a month. If she doesn't call or text back within the next 2 weeks, move on. In the meantime, sarge 100 other girls.

So it's the situation, right? Damn, I have never gotten a woman to get this hooked on me so fast. And now most likely gone. I feel like I've been hit by a train or something. I'm not even sad. More shocked. I'm feeling empty as fuck. Anyone experienced this series of events or similar before? I sure haven't.

Thanks for the reply though. Shed atleast some light.

So many times; I can't remember how many. I'm no longer making the same mistakes now though.

Btw, girls usually call within two weeks of NC. If they're REALLY horny for you, they just can't help it. When that happens, keep the texting short and f-close ASAP.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Gotta wait a few more days then. Guess I will have to drop it then. Just seems so sick. She was all over me. Guess I'm mostly curious. Did she lose the attraction? Or is she playing me? Doesn't really matter I guess but well, this guy can't help but to wonder ...

It's just the way it is. Do not over think or over complicate things. Sarge 100 other girls and the problem will fix itself.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

If you didn't tag it while she was obviously wanting it, she probably thought you were lame.

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"You ain't accustomed of going through customs. You ain't been nowhere, huh?"

Been there more times than I can count, it took this forum to understand what I was doing wrong. The first few posts some it up perfectly. Once in a while they will come back, but more often than not this is a lost cause. Chalk it up to a learning experience and move on.

Also I would say its another dude so if you see her around often get yourself prepared to see her with someone else.