met this girl on facebook...she was cute seemed smart she tells me she is kinda single so i get interested tried moving the interaction forward...called her up.she says she is sad and then proceeds to rant about her on and off boyfriends...says he dumped her on valentines and has since been ignoring her...she is like i have moved on but since she is hung up over him..her ranting leads to her breaking down...she actually starts crying....how do i proceed with this one? i have had bad experiences with girls like this....it takes time to get them comfortable with the idea of another man...i got this far with her because she said she was single..what do i do? and how should i make this interaction to move forward?

She's not over her ex, any sex she has with you just well...you won't be the only one in her head whilst you fuck her in fact she probably wouldn't be thinking about you at all AND will most likely cry afterwards.

if you like this girl then I'd personally just go "look I know you say you're over him but you obviously aren't. I like you and I find you attractive so I'm going to leave you to find a friend that can help you through this as it isn't me I'm afraid"

She'll be all dramatic but it's the best thing for both of you.

Been there, and sadly I have to agree. I know this is not what you want to hear, I sure as hell didn't like it when someone said it to me, but it will save you a lot of pain.

quick update...we live in two different countries and there is a possibility of us meeting but she says i am better off as a friend...i am thinking of just freezing her out...what do u think brothers?

Leave it alone. This will not end well.

1. Stop hitting on random girls on Facebook.

2. You're her therapist. You're not someone who's making her pussy wet. She's telling you all of this stuff because she thinks you're a "nice guy" and she's not threatened by you. You have entered the Friend Zone.

mr majikal i have gotten some lays on facebook though it has a low strike rate..a few is better than none.....as for her i have frozen her out...the girl seems like someone with low self esteem...she always updating pics asking what people think of her...but definately she is very hot..

Hi,

If I was you, I would use a few banter lines on her to cheer her up and get her to flirt with me, because banters are short playful lines that you use to give a girl the image of girl who's hitting on you.

Example: 'So, you've come all the way over here to just flirt with me.'

Then, at some point start being bold and direct with her by saying something like: 'Hey, both you and I know that he's not here any longer and that I find you attractive and you're enjoying our chat. So, what do you say about us starting to think pink about you and I getting know each other better?' BAM!!!

What you've just done there is that you've kind of let her know that you're there next to her giving her the opportunity to net another man who has the balls and the skills to tell her that you're interested in her while not being needy toward her. This way you're basically letting her know that you're prepared to walk away and forget her if she doesn't seizes the opportunity that you're giving her. DONE!!

Hope this helps.

Bruno

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i have followed the advice of the most posters here and ignored her....we will see how it goes with her...she is yet to talk to me..